You are being ignored by someone you love the most and it is literally killing you? And, you’re trying hard to find out what’s with him/her, well, there is something really deep brewing inside him if he/she is ignoring you to the hilt.
It’s not healthy to be clingy to your partner but, ignorance is uncalled for too. Ignorance in love crops up for only two reasons:
When love is not reciprocated
A lot of times, we end up giving so much of love that it becomes humanly impossible for the other person to reciprocate it. Every person has a capacity to love or to give out love and the whole law of individual difference comes to play whenever there’s a seed of ignorance sown anywhere. No two individuals are alike and quite similarly no two people can love alike. It is important for a person to understand that his/her love might be reciprocated in a manner that’ll meet his expectations or might not even meet up with them. Though, in certain relations an individual’s love for someone is not reciprocated simply because of latter’s sheer inability to do justice to the affection that he/she is getting from the former. Disappointment in reciprocation leads to accumulation of unpleasant feelings in some individuals and that in turn leads to the person adapting various means of getting back at his/her lover, including ignorance as it seems to be one of the quickest mechanisms to make a person get the taste of his/her medicine. Try ignoring your lover for long, the way he/she does or being a little indifferent towards him/her and you’ll know what I am talking about! Yeah, you’ll have your lover begging you for your attention.
When it’s time to move on
The only other obvious situation that results in ignorance, rather complete ignorance is when the person has had enough of you and has made up his/her mind to move forward without you. If your pacifying efforts as well as justifications and love notes fail together then, you know it’s time to bid goodbye for, the person is all set to free himself/herself from a relationship that only seemed to chain him/her.
So, the next time you’re ignored in a relationship you better know which of the above reasons it is!
Source: Ankita Shukla
