Thursday, December 31, 2009

What to do when SEX is over?

ghlth080320couple12p.hmediumAfter sharing an intimate session with your partner, what would be the best thing to do? It’s only normal that you want to uphold that intimacy through talking, kissing and cuddling.

Usually couples fails to understand the significance of after-sex talk. It’s like taking over sex even after the act is over. Believe me, there can be nothing as comforting as lying in his/her arms and starting with that sensual talk.

Following are few things you can try post sex session:

Cute Cuddle

Don’t tell me you don’t know this? Every woman loves it when her man finishes doing his thing only to spin her around and hug her in the spoon position. That's the goldmine of loving actions.
Flipping her around isn't even required, but some kind of bodily touch is significant here. Something as small as wrapping your arms around her can make all the difference. But, if you can’t open your eyes anymore, just close your eyes, wrap your arms around her and say ‘I love you’.


Don’t touch her again

May be your woman is one who does not want any sort of affection once the love session comes to a halt. Why? Well, some women confessed that their senses become heightened to the point where any form of touching is too exacerbating for them.

Let’s talk

Even though loads of guys aren't big fans of the "embrace," there are even less men around who want to talk once the feat is over. But if she wants to converse, you may have to keep your ears open and listen up. Probability is that she will talk about what went down -- particularly if you had her yelling out like a specter.
If you want to take a catnap at this point, you won't be able to doze off totally as she might be affronted if you start snoring when she's in the middle of reciting her second orgasm.

Let's do it again

If she is still not out of the first round, prospect is she'll be all over you, doing her best to let you know that the evening calls for a second round. Between playing with her and stroking your penis, you may just find yourself going into round two before you know it.
But if you're older and more comfortable in your relationship, odds are that you may not be as effortlessly aroused for round two, and, of course, that isn't your fault.

Source: Megha Chaturvedi

10 tricks to bigger Orgazms in 2010


fullbodyorgasm_310While majority of couples wish to have extended massive orgasm (EMO), not everybody comes down to experiencing these repeated orgasmic waves. Lovers experiencing one of these massive orgasms have reported enjoying more of life’s joys in general, becoming nicer and more generous in their relationship.

An EMO can last minutes or hours, offering up blissful sensations at increasing intensities, reports Fox News.

And here are the tricks of this tantalizing trade:

1. Truly recognize your pleasure
You want to immediately approve of your present sensations. This starts before you even get in the sack by overcoming anxieties you have about sex. This may require identifying limitations you’ve been taught about sex, like how you’re supposed to respond (or not respond). You need to then challenge any social conditioning that impedes upon your response.

Ridding yourself of the uninvited "others" in your bed will enable you to solely focus on the orgasmic sensations, including ones that come from simply anticipating action.

2. Learn to relax
Lovers have the tendency to tense up during sexual excitement, which is not conducive to extended orgasm. You need to be able to surrender your nervous system during genital stimulation. It’s this letting go of tension that allows you to embrace your pleasure.

3. Get in the know
The more we know about our bodies, sex, and sexual response, the better we can recognize sensations, the more we can lose ourselves in them. Become knowledgeable about sexual response, sexual anatomy, and erotic techniques.

4. Give yourselves time for pleasuring
Lovers may stimulate each other by fantasizing out loud, taking your time getting to the genitals and hot spots. Teasing allows for greater energy awareness and arousal, and these are what make the experience ultimately so mind-blowing.

5. Touch for pleasure
You can show your partner that you are into the moment by informing them about what you are going to do so he or she can surrender more easily. Highlighting a lover’s physical responses further enables them to tune into the sensations.

sex_vaginal_orgasm2_3106. Learn to channel your energy
You want to get out of your head, directing your energy to your groin. This will make for more explosive results, plus help you to further tune into your sexual response.

7. Become an effective communicator
To amplify things up, you may need to request changes that will intensify your pleasure if you’re the receiver. As the giver, you may need to ask for feedback or direction. In either case, asking for more will help you to feel more. Giving approval can do wonders for a lover’s ego.

8. Develop your pelvic floor muscles
Exercising your pubbococcygeus (PC) muscle will put you more in tune with your sexual response. It’s also what makes for more powerful orgasms.

9. Have plenty of lubricant handy
As you will be loving for the long-haul, make sure you avoid the friction, pain, and discomfort that can result from working each other raw by using lube.

10. Do away with any drive-thru mentality
Having an EMO isn’t like going for fast food. One can’t go into it thinking instant gratification. Instead, approach it as though training for a sport.

Source ANI

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Heat-up your sex life...try G-sopt technique


_1_female_g_spot_home_310Women can orgasm several different ways, via clitoral, vaginal, and of course the G-Spot, the latter can give her a massively satisfying orgasm if stimulated correctly. Here, we will talk about some techniques that will help to enhance the sexual activity between you and your partner.

Although it's definitely possible to give a woman a G-spot orgasm on the first sexual encounter, you'll find more success with someone that you have developed a high-trust relationship with.

G-spot orgasm

G Spot is not a theory that we, the humans have believed for years, but it's a real-life thing that exists very much. Just that, you gotta find the right spot to ignite the passion. Although the G-spot is surrounded by controversy and conflicting theories, there is far to much evidence to deny its existence. Many women swear that it gives them an orgasm unlike any other. Some even ejaculate fluid and go into uncontrollable spasms from a G-spot orgasm.

Where is it located?

Well, the G-spot is located about two inches inside and on the front wall of the vagina. It's roughly the size of a quarter and may become larger when stimulated.
Women describe G-spot orgasms as deep, whole body experiences. Many say that G-spot orgasms are the most powerful type of orgasm and hit like rolling waves of pleasure. They are sometimes followed by a euphoric sensation that may last up to a half an hour. It may sometimes also lead to female ejaculation, which is also called squiritng.

Foreplay...

is a must. Start with a sensual massage with lots of oil. This will relax her, and also helps to build intimacy. Massage her entire body for at least 20 minutes. Try to stay away from her hot spots (breasts and butt are fine). Go ahead and stimulate her clitoris until she's bucking her hips and begging for you inside of her.

Fingers:

Let is do the most part of the talking. Do your homework well, and know how magical you can actually be with your fingers. Remember: You need to have a clean hands for this.

G spot Toys:

Toys are a great ways to enhance your G-spot experience. They don't get tired like wrists abd fingers, and some are made to give off extremely pleasant vibrations. Many are perfectly curved in order to make finding the G-spot easier.

Source:: Agency

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Wanaa spiceup your life?


couplefunsexfacts600_310Doing the dishes with your partner everyday could guarantee a happy conjugal life.Couples who share the responsibility for paid and unpaid work, show higher average of happiness and life satisfaction than others.

Couples are more likely to be in a shared roles when women have more resources and when the couple is less religious.The complementary traditional family model in which men do more paid work and women do more unpaid work is declining, but still remains the largest category.

The shared roles model is advantageous to society in terms of gender equity and its ability to maximise labour force participation by all adults. This leads to marital bliss.

It also leaves women less vulnerable in the case of separation, divorce or death of a spouse.

Such kind of a model suggests equal opportunities for men and women to access education and work, provide conditions that facilitate work life balance and promote greater involvement of men in household chores and childcare.

Source: Agency
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Now this is called real SEX


sexlife150209_310Does she complain of you being real fast when it comes to some romping session? Are you not satisfied with your endurance level? Well, don't worry, a few tricks that may just do the magic.

Not very often does one get the opportunity to spend extended lovemaking time with their lover, but when such rare occasion does arise one should make it a point to keep it enjoyable as well as enduring - make the most of it, you know.



To start of with, as the Fox News reports, enduring a sex marathon can take a few hours or longer if the situation demands it, and many times it could go all night. Thus, to keep oneself in good form, even the most virile and energetic must rest and rejuvenate. Health is after all the pivotal subject that one has to look for.

And here are some tips on enduring a sex marathon:

Orgasm

One of the biggest turn off's. Bear in mind that having an orgasm isn't the end of the session and you can take a rest before you continue. This is a good time to experiment with positions that you may not have tried with your partner. And if you think missionary is all that keeps you going, then boy, it's time for you to leaf through the pages of Kamasutra. Some gyan on the subject may just click those buttons. You never know, you see!

Focus:

One important thing that one has to remember is the focus. Keep your mind off the girl if you thing it's getting just too much. You have a lot of things to do, and that, your girl, for sure wants you to make the most of it. This can include cuddling, fondling, massage, general touching, and kissing. A rest does not have to be totally sexual in nature , and it is just as nice to make love for hours as it is to just touch each other in nice ways - or invent new ways of loving.

Don't drink too much

It may be a gift, but too much of this may just make the whole time go down the drain. Be a smart boozer. Drink till as time you are on your senses. Remember, alcohol can also have the sedative effects. It could cause you to fall asleep easily. Drinking can also encourage unsafe behaviour. Drinking too much alcohol will not help enduring a sex marathon.

Get creative

If one needs, there is possibly an ocean full of things to be explored. Make the most of it. can introduce sex toys like vibrators, beads or sex paraphernalia such as whips, ropes and blindfolds. Food is also a great diversion and pleasure- ice cream, chocolate sauce or whipped cream are great. Get creative - you can draw out the process for quite some time with some very lusty teasing using these objects.

Keep lube handy

One of the main problems of sex play for hours could be dryness, so keep some good quality lubricant handy, one that tastes nice and is non-greasy. A glass of water nearby is also going to be useful, not only to rehydrate but to moisten your mouth. Some cube of ices can just do the wonders.

Surce: Agency

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Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Excuses to make when you’re CAUGHT CHEATING

You are really committed to your man; but for once you wanted to have some fun with this guy you find totally irresistible. But you weren’t lucky enough, for when you were just cozying up with this hottie, you were caught by your boyfriend !!

Girl, here we are to rescue you. These are five excuses you can make to save your relationship (and yourself!) …

Meet my Rakhi brother

Introduce this hottie as your Rakhi brother and pretend that you guys just bumped into each other accidentally. The most exploited of all excuses!

Hey! We’re childhood friends

Introduce this hottie as your childhood friend. Tell your boyfriend that he was hanging around nearby and you just thought of catching up with him.

I just gave him a shoulder to cry on

Make your boyfriend believe that this guy is a long lost friend of yours and he’s going through a rough patch in his life. Tell him that you were just giving him a shoulder to cry on!

He has mixed something in my drink

Alright now, your boyfriend saw you getting really close to this hottie. Make that innocent face and tell him that this guy got you a drink and after having that, you’ve been feeling very dizzy.

He was forcing himself on me!

Girl, if none of the above work, you sure are gonna get away with this one. Tell your man that this ‘other guy’ was eyeing you from a long time and just when he got the right opportunity, he began to force himself upon you!

Now that you’ve convinced him enough and he believes you, give him that angry expression and ask him to buzz off! Tell him that you’re really hurt by his pre-conceived notion. Poor, guilty guy is gonna beg you for forgiveness for having ‘wrong’ perceptions of you !

Source: Ekta Oberoi

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Top 5 resolutions you would never keep!!!

new_year_resolution_310I will lose weight this year; I will quit smoke this year, I will …. Stop it guys. Another new year and again bulks of unrealistic New Year resolutions. Everyone talks about I will do despite knowing that they would never do that very thing.

The bright New Year time and again draws out the snooty goal-makers in us. In my knowledge, the trouble with resolutions comes when we confuse dreams with promises.

So let’s simply not talk about that impractical resolution which we never follow. Instead we talk should about resolution we would never follow:

I will not have SEX at least for a month:
Come on!!! At least don’t lie to your body parts (read wittily) (WINK). Even if you say this thing 100 times a day, ‘I won’t have sex at least for a month’ it won’t work. This is the most unrealistic resolution that people take and make sure not to follow.

I won’t do something for her coz’ she is hot:
How many times have you declined a hot girl saying “hi baby, can you please lend me some money”? I am sure you have never ignored such offers even if you have to sell your wrist watch! So guys please do not make such lame resolutions.

NO flirting!!!
Ha ha ha !!! Can you beat that? A guy saying “I won’t flirt anymore” not even with my girl friend’s best and hottest friend. How can you ignore that friend of hers when she is wearing that tiny sexy dress with all her cleavage peeping out?

Lose virginity at last!!
So, you are a virgin. But it’s ok, just for the sake of losing your virginity you should not become a butt of joke. Don’t try to attempt all this just coz’ all your friends are not virgins anymore and are making fun of youi for that matter are thinking that you are impotent.

Source: Megha Chaturvedi

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Shhhhh…. Don’t say this during ‘LoveMaking’

106106sex_sex_sex_310_01Sex is all about pleasure. But it does not take much time to put off a person if right things are done at wrong time. Reciprocated indulgence, intense intimacy, sexual fulfillment and obsession: These are not givens simply because you’re in a relationship.

Below are a few things that should be avoided during SEX.

I think I have got a ‘type of orgasm’
I mean for God's sake!! What is this type of orgasm? Either you will have it or you will not have it. Don't worry about having a specific type, but focus on pampering your whole body, attending to any of its hot spots. This beckons your orgasm by not being so goal-oriented.

My Ex used to do this…
I hope you are not dumb enough to involve your ex’s talk in your present sex life. Even if you are frank enough with your partner you should never mention your ex… Don't invite suffering into your current romance by recalling about the good times or bad times you've had with other jerks, hotties, players or loves. Focus on the present and making it the most memorable.

Let's have SEX at 9….
Are you crazy? Sex is about pleasure not pressure. It should never have a schedule and a date sheet. While it's wise to get in a routine to make sure sex happens, don't let sex itself get routine. This only invites monotony and the mundane. To keep things hot, be sure to keep things new and fresh.

Kamasutra- a NO-NO
Never try Kamasutra positions if you are not those flexible types. Stick with pursuing sexual positions that are comfortable for you.

Never trust magazine tips...
Don't mindlessly copy magazine sex tips. Think about the idea first. Is it hot or totally absurd? Will it work for your sexual relationship? Or does it have the potential to sabotage your sex life?

Source: Megha Chaturvedi

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Sexy evening…Without SEX

candlelightdinner_romanti_310A romantic evening does not always mean a evening filled with SEX. Lovers are always looking for ingredients that help cupid's arrow and give vigor.

A romantic evening not necessarily begins at sunset. Surprise your special someone with a gift during the day. And if she works, gift her something and make her co workers jealous. Not only does an early surprise leave her feeling lovey-dovey, but it also builds anticipation to see you later on.

Following are the examples of few things that you can do to make your partner feel special:

1. Bathing in rose petals

One of the most stunning things in this world along with being one of the most peaceful ones too; nothing can beat the experience of it if you have it with the one you love.

2. Wow.. Buggy ride around town

Imagine the spark in your girlfriend’s eyes, when you will take her for a buggy ride. How royal it would look. Your city would look thousand times more beautiful.

3. Candel light… dinner or no dinner
Even if you cannot arrange dinner. Lots of candles would just do. Eat maggi or even popcorns, but those popcorns would taste a lot different in that candle light.

4. Notes of love

Leave notes about how much you care and love your significant other in the car, kitchen, living room, everywhere you can think of.

5. Ask her what she's thinking about. Yep, just like that. It's simple, to the point and will steer the conversation in a deep direction.


6. Be nostalgic. Reminisce about the first time you met or your first kiss.

7. Talk about your turn-ons. Is there something she did or said recently that really got you in the mood? Is there something you recently did that made her go hmm...?

Source: Megha Chaturvedi

What’s your sex resolution for the New Year?

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Okay, so someone’s leaving booze this New Year, someone is gonna find himself a new girlfriend but, what’s your resolution for this New Year? If you’re happily committed and looking forward to adding some spark to your love life or rather wanting to sex it up, read on…

It’s time that you take complete control of your sex life and make your lovemaking experience more wholesome. Here are a few sex resolutions that might just help you in achieving mind-boggling sex:

It’s time to dedicate time


Yeah, you never seem to have that kinda time to enjoy sex with your partner and if you’re following the quickie pattern then just hang on, you need to dedicate more time to the act. Sex needs time and you ought to devote it…

Start the cuddling game

When was the last time you cuddled your partner, feeling extreme love for her inside? It’s been long right? This is the right time to get your act in place. You have to realize that touching, caressing and cuddling add to the proximity that you guys share and can be called a catalyst that leads to sex. So, go give her a tight hug.
Experiment this New Year

Everything needs excitement and similarly there has to be room for experimentation in your sex life. Try some new sex techniques or perhaps some new surroundings and you’re sure to find a zing in your love life.

Appreciate

What’s good needs to be appreciated, right? Well, the same goes for sex. You like how your partner makes you feel while you’re getting closer to her? You’ve got to tell her how much her moves mean to you.

Hunt for privacy

You might be living with your family and finding it hard to get hold of a few private moments with the love of your life, try hunting for some private space with your darling and let the stay away!!

So, what are you waiting for? Start planning now!!

Source: Ankita Shukla

A delicious kiss to remember…

kiss_310_01So, you wanna really give your beloved a kiss to remember? Then, do something that he/she has not experienced till date.

Here are a few ideas that will give an outlet to your passion…

Noodle kiss

Place a single strand of noodle in your mouth and ask your partner to start eating the same noodle from the other end. Enjoy the noodle till your lips meet and then go on to enjoy the kiss that follows.

Creamy strawberry kiss


Place cream-dipped strawberry in your mouth and tempt your partner to snatch it away from your mouth. Get ready for some lip-biting excitement henceforth!

Gel your lips with jelly


Lock your lips with your partner and try placing some shivering jelly in your mouth. Play with it till it softens with your warm kiss.



kissbeach_310Crackling kiss

Put some magic pop on your tongue before your partner comes lose to kiss you. The moment he’ll start with an intimate French kiss, the magic pop (crackling candy) will start bursting inside your mouth. Trust me, the unaware him will have some fun!

Peppery hot kiss

Put some mild chilli in your mouth before the two of you cozy up together. The hot chilli clubbed with your warm emotions will have your guy craving for more…

Source: Ekta Oberoi

Bored? Women Turn To Lovemaking!

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The one who said sex is all about love, certainly has been long proved wrong, but astonishingly it is not just about lust as well, its because women are bored that's why they have sex, says a study.

Its not for love or passion, but women now have sex for relieving boredom, sometimes its out of pity for a man or some do it just for getting that gloss back on the skin. Cindy Meston and David Buss in "why women have sex" speak about some 200 reasons as to why women have sexual intercourse.


But what might really affect the handsome men would be that attraction ranks way down in the list, and women go to bed with their partners just to kill boredom, and even as a thank you gesture for a nice dinner.

"Research has shown that most men find most women at least somewhat sexually attractive, whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all," the Telegraph quoted the authors, who are both psychology professors at the University of Texas, as saying.

As part of the research, some 1,006 women were interviewed, whose answers just might astonish some, while some may find a need to recheck their assumptions.

"I have sex to relieve the boredom. Because it's easier than fighting. Plus it gives me something to do," said one of the interviewee. While some 84 per cent admitted that they had sex to ensure a quiet life or to bargain for their partners to carry out household chores.

Amusingly, one participant revealed that she did it for a spiritual experience, as she thought it to be "the closest thing to God". Others listed "cure for stress headache", "to make my sexual skills better" and "for a clearer complexion".

While one said, "I had sex with a couple of guys because I felt sorry for them."

One of the surveys carried out by the authors revealed that one in ten women admitted having sexual intercourse in return for presents, or lavish meals. Responses included "he bought me a nice dinner" or "he spent a lot of money on me early on", "he gave me gifts early on" and "he showed me he had an extravagant lifestyle".

Source: Agency

Sexy evening…Without SEX

A romantic evening does not always mean a evening filled with SEX. Lovers are always looking for ingredients that help cupid's arrow and give vigor.
A romantic evening not necessarily begins at sunset. Surprise your special someone with a gift during the day. And if she works, gift her something and make her co workers jealous. Not only does an early surprise leave her feeling lovey-dovey, but it also builds anticipation to see you later on.
Following are the examples of few things that you can do to make your partner feel special: 1. Bathing in rose petals
One of the most stunning things in this world along with being one of the most peaceful ones too; nothing can beat the experience of it if you have it with the one you love.
2. Wow.. Buggy ride around town
Imagine the spark in your girlfriend’s eyes, when you will take her for a buggy ride. How royal it would look. Your city would look thousand times more beautiful.3. Candel light… dinner or no dinnerEven if you cannot arrange dinner. Lots of candles would just do. Eat maggi or even popcorns, but those popcorns would taste a lot different in that candle light.4. Notes of love
Leave notes about how much you care and love your significant other in the car, kitchen, living room, everywhere you can think of.5. Ask her what she's thinking about. Yep, just like that. It's simple, to the point and will steer the conversation in a deep direction. 6. Be nostalgic. Reminisce about the first time you met or your first kiss. 7. Talk about your turn-ons. Is there something she did or said recently that really got you in the mood? Is there something you recently did that made her go hmm...?

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