What to do when SEX is over?

After sharing an intimate session with your partner, what would be the best thing to do? It’s only normal that you want to uphold that intimacy through talking, kissing and cuddling.

Usually couples fails to understand the significance of after-sex talk. It’s like taking over sex even after the act is over. Believe me, there can be nothing as comforting as lying in his/her arms and starting with that sensual talk.

Following are few things you can try post sex session:

Cute Cuddle

Don’t tell me you don’t know this? Every woman loves it when her man finishes doing his thing only to spin her around and hug her in the spoon position. That's the goldmine of loving actions.
Flipping her around isn't even required, but some kind of bodily touch is significant here. Something as small as wrapping your arms around her can make all the difference. But, if you can’t open your eyes anymore, just close your eyes, wrap your arms around her and say ‘I love you’.

Don’t touch her again

May be your woman is one who does not want any sort of affection once the love session comes to a halt. Why? Well, some women confessed that their senses become heightened to the point where any form of touching is too exacerbating for them.

Let’s talk

Even though loads of guys aren't big fans of the "embrace," there are even less men around who want to talk once the feat is over. But if she wants to converse, you may have to keep your ears open and listen up. Probability is that she will talk about what went down -- particularly if you had her yelling out like a specter.
If you want to take a catnap at this point, you won't be able to doze off totally as she might be affronted if you start snoring when she's in the middle of reciting her second orgasm.

Let's do it again

If she is still not out of the first round, prospect is she'll be all over you, doing her best to let you know that the evening calls for a second round. Between playing with her and stroking your penis, you may just find yourself going into round two before you know it.
But if you're older and more comfortable in your relationship, odds are that you may not be as effortlessly aroused for round two, and, of course, that isn't your fault.

Source: Megha Chaturvedi

10 tricks to bigger Orgazms in 2010

While majority of couples wish to have extended massive orgasm (EMO), not everybody comes down to experiencing these repeated orgasmic waves. Lovers experiencing one of these massive orgasms have reported enjoying more of life’s joys in general, becoming nicer and more generous in their relationship.

An EMO can last minutes or hours, offering up blissful sensations at increasing intensities, reports Fox News.

And here are the tricks of this tantalizing trade:

1. Truly recognize your pleasure
You want to immediately approve of your present sensations. This starts before you even get in the sack by overcoming anxieties you have about sex. This may require identifying limitations you’ve been taught about sex, like how you’re supposed to respond (or not respond). You need to then challenge any social conditioning that impedes upon your response.

Ridding yourself of the uninvited "others" in your bed will enable you to solely focus on the orgasmic sensations, including ones that come from simply anticipating action.

2. Learn to relax
Lovers have the tendency to tense up during sexual excitement, which is not conducive to extended orgasm. You need to be able to surrender your nervous system during genital stimulation. It’s this letting go of tension that allows you to embrace your pleasure.

3. Get in the know
The more we know about our bodies, sex, and sexual response, the better we can recognize sensations, the more we can lose ourselves in them. Become knowledgeable about sexual response, sexual anatomy, and erotic techniques.

4. Give yourselves time for pleasuring
Lovers may stimulate each other by fantasizing out loud, taking your time getting to the genitals and hot spots. Teasing allows for greater energy awareness and arousal, and these are what make the experience ultimately so mind-blowing.

5. Touch for pleasure
You can show your partner that you are into the moment by informing them about what you are going to do so he or she can surrender more easily. Highlighting a lover’s physical responses further enables them to tune into the sensations.

6. Learn to channel your energy
You want to get out of your head, directing your energy to your groin. This will make for more explosive results, plus help you to further tune into your sexual response.

7. Become an effective communicator
To amplify things up, you may need to request changes that will intensify your pleasure if you’re the receiver. As the giver, you may need to ask for feedback or direction. In either case, asking for more will help you to feel more. Giving approval can do wonders for a lover’s ego.

8. Develop your pelvic floor muscles
Exercising your pubbococcygeus (PC) muscle will put you more in tune with your sexual response. It’s also what makes for more powerful orgasms.

9. Have plenty of lubricant handy
As you will be loving for the long-haul, make sure you avoid the friction, pain, and discomfort that can result from working each other raw by using lube.

10. Do away with any drive-thru mentality
Having an EMO isn’t like going for fast food. One can’t go into it thinking instant gratification. Instead, approach it as though training for a sport.

Source ANI

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Heat-up your sex life...try G-sopt technique

Women can orgasm several different ways, via clitoral, vaginal, and of course the G-Spot, the latter can give her a massively satisfying orgasm if stimulated correctly. Here, we will talk about some techniques that will help to enhance the sexual activity between you and your partner.

Although it's definitely possible to give a woman a G-spot orgasm on the first sexual encounter, you'll find more success with someone that you have developed a high-trust relationship with.

G-spot orgasm

G Spot is not a theory that we, the humans have believed for years, but it's a real-life thing that exists very much. Just that, you gotta find the right spot to ignite the passion. Although the G-spot is surrounded by controversy and conflicting theories, there is far to much evidence to deny its existence. Many women swear that it gives them an orgasm unlike any other. Some even ejaculate fluid and go into uncontrollable spasms from a G-spot orgasm.

Where is it located?

Well, the G-spot is located about two inches inside and on the front wall of the vagina. It's roughly the size of a quarter and may become larger when stimulated.
Women describe G-spot orgasms as deep, whole body experiences. Many say that G-spot orgasms are the most powerful type of orgasm and hit like rolling waves of pleasure. They are sometimes followed by a euphoric sensation that may last up to a half an hour. It may sometimes also lead to female ejaculation, which is also called squiritng.

Foreplay...

is a must. Start with a sensual massage with lots of oil. This will relax her, and also helps to build intimacy. Massage her entire body for at least 20 minutes. Try to stay away from her hot spots (breasts and butt are fine). Go ahead and stimulate her clitoris until she's bucking her hips and begging for you inside of her.

Fingers:

Let is do the most part of the talking. Do your homework well, and know how magical you can actually be with your fingers. Remember: You need to have a clean hands for this.

G spot Toys:

Toys are a great ways to enhance your G-spot experience. They don't get tired like wrists abd fingers, and some are made to give off extremely pleasant vibrations. Many are perfectly curved in order to make finding the G-spot easier.

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Wanaa spiceup your life?

Doing the dishes with your partner everyday could guarantee a happy conjugal life.Couples who share the responsibility for paid and unpaid work, show higher average of happiness and life satisfaction than others.

Couples are more likely to be in a shared roles when women have more resources and when the couple is less religious.The complementary traditional family model in which men do more paid work and women do more unpaid work is declining, but still remains the largest category.

The shared roles model is advantageous to society in terms of gender equity and its ability to maximise labour force participation by all adults. This leads to marital bliss.

It also leaves women less vulnerable in the case of separation, divorce or death of a spouse.

Such kind of a model suggests equal opportunities for men and women to access education and work, provide conditions that facilitate work life balance and promote greater involvement of men in household chores and childcare.

Source: Agency

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Now this is called real SEX

Does she complain of you being real fast when it comes to some romping session? Are you not satisfied with your endurance level? Well, don't worry, a few tricks that may just do the magic.

Not very often does one get the opportunity to spend extended lovemaking time with their lover, but when such rare occasion does arise one should make it a point to keep it enjoyable as well as enduring - make the most of it, you know.

To start of with, as the Fox News reports, enduring a sex marathon can take a few hours or longer if the situation demands it, and many times it could go all night. Thus, to keep oneself in good form, even the most virile and energetic must rest and rejuvenate. Health is after all the pivotal subject that one has to look for.

And here are some tips on enduring a sex marathon:

Orgasm

One of the biggest turn off's. Bear in mind that having an orgasm isn't the end of the session and you can take a rest before you continue. This is a good time to experiment with positions that you may not have tried with your partner. And if you think missionary is all that keeps you going, then boy, it's time for you to leaf through the pages of Kamasutra. Some gyan on the subject may just click those buttons. You never know, you see!

Focus:

One important thing that one has to remember is the focus. Keep your mind off the girl if you thing it's getting just too much. You have a lot of things to do, and that, your girl, for sure wants you to make the most of it. This can include cuddling, fondling, massage, general touching, and kissing. A rest does not have to be totally sexual in nature , and it is just as nice to make love for hours as it is to just touch each other in nice ways - or invent new ways of loving.

Don't drink too much

It may be a gift, but too much of this may just make the whole time go down the drain. Be a smart boozer. Drink till as time you are on your senses. Remember, alcohol can also have the sedative effects. It could cause you to fall asleep easily. Drinking can also encourage unsafe behaviour. Drinking too much alcohol will not help enduring a sex marathon.

Get creative

If one needs, there is possibly an ocean full of things to be explored. Make the most of it. can introduce sex toys like vibrators, beads or sex paraphernalia such as whips, ropes and blindfolds. Food is also a great diversion and pleasure- ice cream, chocolate sauce or whipped cream are great. Get creative - you can draw out the process for quite some time with some very lusty teasing using these objects.

Keep lube handy

One of the main problems of sex play for hours could be dryness, so keep some good quality lubricant handy, one that tastes nice and is non-greasy. A glass of water nearby is also going to be useful, not only to rehydrate but to moisten your mouth. Some cube of ices can just do the wonders.

Surce: Agency

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Excuses to make when you’re CAUGHT CHEATING

You are really committed to your man; but for once you wanted to have some fun with this guy you find totally irresistible. But you weren’t lucky enough, for when you were just cozying up with this hottie, you were caught by your boyfriend !!

Girl, here we are to rescue you. These are five excuses you can make to save your relationship (and yourself!) …

Meet my Rakhi brother

Introduce this hottie as your Rakhi brother and pretend that you guys just bumped into each other accidentally. The most exploited of all excuses!

Hey! We’re childhood friends

Introduce this hottie as your childhood friend. Tell your boyfriend that he was hanging around nearby and you just thought of catching up with him.

I just gave him a shoulder to cry on

Make your boyfriend believe that this guy is a long lost friend of yours and he’s going through a rough patch in his life. Tell him that you were just giving him a shoulder to cry on!

He has mixed something in my drink

Alright now, your boyfriend saw you getting really close to this hottie. Make that innocent face and tell him that this guy got you a drink and after having that, you’ve been feeling very dizzy.

He was forcing himself on me!

Girl, if none of the above work, you sure are gonna get away with this one. Tell your man that this ‘other guy’ was eyeing you from a long time and just when he got the right opportunity, he began to force himself upon you!

Now that you’ve convinced him enough and he believes you, give him that angry expression and ask him to buzz off! Tell him that you’re really hurt by his pre-conceived notion. Poor, guilty guy is gonna beg you for forgiveness for having ‘wrong’ perceptions of you !

Source: Ekta Oberoi

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Top 5 resolutions you would never keep!!!

I will lose weight this year; I will quit smoke this year, I will …. Stop it guys. Another new year and again bulks of unrealistic New Year resolutions. Everyone talks about I will do despite knowing that they would never do that very thing.

The bright New Year time and again draws out the snooty goal-makers in us. In my knowledge, the trouble with resolutions comes when we confuse dreams with promises.

So let’s simply not talk about that impractical resolution which we never follow. Instead we talk should about resolution we would never follow:

I will not have SEX at least for a month:
Come on!!! At least don’t lie to your body parts (read wittily) (WINK). Even if you say this thing 100 times a day, ‘I won’t have sex at least for a month’ it won’t work. This is the most unrealistic resolution that people take and make sure not to follow.

I won’t do something for her coz’ she is hot:
How many times have you declined a hot girl saying “hi baby, can you please lend me some money”? I am sure you have never ignored such offers even if you have to sell your wrist watch! So guys please do not make such lame resolutions.

NO flirting!!!
Ha ha ha !!! Can you beat that? A guy saying “I won’t flirt anymore” not even with my girl friend’s best and hottest friend. How can you ignore that friend of hers when she is wearing that tiny sexy dress with all her cleavage peeping out?

Lose virginity at last!!
So, you are a virgin. But it’s ok, just for the sake of losing your virginity you should not become a butt of joke. Don’t try to attempt all this just coz’ all your friends are not virgins anymore and are making fun of youi for that matter are thinking that you are impotent.

Source: Megha Chaturvedi

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Shhhhh…. Don’t say this during ‘LoveMaking’

Sex is all about pleasure. But it does not take much time to put off a person if right things are done at wrong time. Reciprocated indulgence, intense intimacy, sexual fulfillment and obsession: These are not givens simply because you’re in a relationship.

Below are a few things that should be avoided during SEX.

I think I have got a ‘type of orgasm’
I mean for God's sake!! What is this type of orgasm? Either you will have it or you will not have it. Don't worry about having a specific type, but focus on pampering your whole body, attending to any of its hot spots. This beckons your orgasm by not being so goal-oriented.

My Ex used to do this…
I hope you are not dumb enough to involve your ex’s talk in your present sex life. Even if you are frank enough with your partner you should never mention your ex… Don't invite suffering into your current romance by recalling about the good times or bad times you've had with other jerks, hotties, players or loves. Focus on the present and making it the most memorable.

Let's have SEX at 9….
Are you crazy? Sex is about pleasure not pressure. It should never have a schedule and a date sheet. While it's wise to get in a routine to make sure sex happens, don't let sex itself get routine. This only invites monotony and the mundane. To keep things hot, be sure to keep things new and fresh.

Kamasutra- a NO-NO
Never try Kamasutra positions if you are not those flexible types. Stick with pursuing sexual positions that are comfortable for you.

Never trust magazine tips...
Don't mindlessly copy magazine sex tips. Think about the idea first. Is it hot or totally absurd? Will it work for your sexual relationship? Or does it have the potential to sabotage your sex life?

Source: Megha Chaturvedi

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Sexy evening…Without SEX

A romantic evening does not always mean a evening filled with SEX. Lovers are always looking for ingredients that help cupid's arrow and give vigor.

A romantic evening not necessarily begins at sunset. Surprise your special someone with a gift during the day. And if she works, gift her something and make her co workers jealous. Not only does an early surprise leave her feeling lovey-dovey, but it also builds anticipation to see you later on.

Following are the examples of few things that you can do to make your partner feel special:

1. Bathing in rose petals

One of the most stunning things in this world along with being one of the most peaceful ones too; nothing can beat the experience of it if you have it with the one you love.

2. Wow.. Buggy ride around town

Imagine the spark in your girlfriend’s eyes, when you will take her for a buggy ride. How royal it would look. Your city would look thousand times more beautiful.

3. Candel light… dinner or no dinner
Even if you cannot arrange dinner. Lots of candles would just do. Eat maggi or even popcorns, but those popcorns would taste a lot different in that candle light.

4. Notes of love

Leave notes about how much you care and love your significant other in the car, kitchen, living room, everywhere you can think of.

5. Ask her what she's thinking about. Yep, just like that. It's simple, to the point and will steer the conversation in a deep direction.


6. Be nostalgic. Reminisce about the first time you met or your first kiss.

7. Talk about your turn-ons. Is there something she did or said recently that really got you in the mood? Is there something you recently did that made her go hmm...?

Source: Megha Chaturvedi

What’s your sex resolution for the New Year?

Okay, so someone’s leaving booze this New Year, someone is gonna find himself a new girlfriend but, what’s your resolution for this New Year? If you’re happily committed and looking forward to adding some spark to your love life or rather wanting to sex it up, read on…

It’s time that you take complete control of your sex life and make your lovemaking experience more wholesome. Here are a few sex resolutions that might just help you in achieving mind-boggling sex:

It’s time to dedicate time

Yeah, you never seem to have that kinda time to enjoy sex with your partner and if you’re following the quickie pattern then just hang on, you need to dedicate more time to the act. Sex needs time and you ought to devote it…

Start the cuddling game

When was the last time you cuddled your partner, feeling extreme love for her inside? It’s been long right? This is the right time to get your act in place. You have to realize that touching, caressing and cuddling add to the proximity that you guys share and can be called a catalyst that leads to sex. So, go give her a tight hug.

Experiment this New Year

Everything needs excitement and similarly there has to be room for experimentation in your sex life. Try some new sex techniques or perhaps some new surroundings and you’re sure to find a zing in your love life.

Appreciate

What’s good needs to be appreciated, right? Well, the same goes for sex. You like how your partner makes you feel while you’re getting closer to her? You’ve got to tell her how much her moves mean to you.

Hunt for privacy

You might be living with your family and finding it hard to get hold of a few private moments with the love of your life, try hunting for some private space with your darling and let the stay away!!

So, what are you waiting for? Start planning now!!

Source: Ankita Shukla

A delicious kiss to remember…

So, you wanna really give your beloved a kiss to remember? Then, do something that he/she has not experienced till date.

Here are a few ideas that will give an outlet to your passion…

Noodle kiss

Place a single strand of noodle in your mouth and ask your partner to start eating the same noodle from the other end. Enjoy the noodle till your lips meet and then go on to enjoy the kiss that follows.

Creamy strawberry kiss

Place cream-dipped strawberry in your mouth and tempt your partner to snatch it away from your mouth. Get ready for some lip-biting excitement henceforth!

Gel your lips with jelly

Lock your lips with your partner and try placing some shivering jelly in your mouth. Play with it till it softens with your warm kiss.

Crackling kiss

Put some magic pop on your tongue before your partner comes lose to kiss you. The moment he’ll start with an intimate French kiss, the magic pop (crackling candy) will start bursting inside your mouth. Trust me, the unaware him will have some fun!

Peppery hot kiss

Put some mild chilli in your mouth before the two of you cozy up together. The hot chilli clubbed with your warm emotions will have your guy craving for more…

Source: Ekta Oberoi

Bored? Women Turn To Lovemaking!

The one who said sex is all about love, certainly has been long proved wrong, but astonishingly it is not just about lust as well, its because women are bored that's why they have sex, says a study.

Its not for love or passion, but women now have sex for relieving boredom, sometimes its out of pity for a man or some do it just for getting that gloss back on the skin. Cindy Meston and David Buss in "why women have sex" speak about some 200 reasons as to why women have sexual intercourse.

But what might really affect the handsome men would be that attraction ranks way down in the list, and women go to bed with their partners just to kill boredom, and even as a thank you gesture for a nice dinner.

"Research has shown that most men find most women at least somewhat sexually attractive, whereas most women do not find most men sexually attractive at all," the Telegraph quoted the authors, who are both psychology professors at the University of Texas, as saying.

As part of the research, some 1,006 women were interviewed, whose answers just might astonish some, while some may find a need to recheck their assumptions.

"I have sex to relieve the boredom. Because it's easier than fighting. Plus it gives me something to do," said one of the interviewee. While some 84 per cent admitted that they had sex to ensure a quiet life or to bargain for their partners to carry out household chores.

Amusingly, one participant revealed that she did it for a spiritual experience, as she thought it to be "the closest thing to God". Others listed "cure for stress headache", "to make my sexual skills better" and "for a clearer complexion".

While one said, "I had sex with a couple of guys because I felt sorry for them."

One of the surveys carried out by the authors revealed that one in ten women admitted having sexual intercourse in return for presents, or lavish meals. Responses included "he bought me a nice dinner" or "he spent a lot of money on me early on", "he gave me gifts early on" and "he showed me he had an extravagant lifestyle".

Source: Agency

Sexy evening…Without SEX

A romantic evening does not always mean a evening filled with SEX. Lovers are always looking for ingredients that help cupid's arrow and give vigor.
A romantic evening not necessarily begins at sunset. Surprise your special someone with a gift during the day. And if she works, gift her something and make her co workers jealous. Not only does an early surprise leave her feeling lovey-dovey, but it also builds anticipation to see you later on.
Following are the examples of few things that you can do to make your partner feel special: 1. Bathing in rose petals
One of the most stunning things in this world along with being one of the most peaceful ones too; nothing can beat the experience of it if you have it with the one you love.
2. Wow.. Buggy ride around town
Imagine the spark in your girlfriend’s eyes, when you will take her for a buggy ride. How royal it would look. Your city would look thousand times more beautiful.3. Candel light… dinner or no dinnerEven if you cannot arrange dinner. Lots of candles would just do. Eat maggi or even popcorns, but those popcorns would taste a lot different in that candle light.4. Notes of love
Leave notes about how much you care and love your significant other in the car, kitchen, living room, everywhere you can think of.5. Ask her what she's thinking about. Yep, just like that. It's simple, to the point and will steer the conversation in a deep direction. 6. Be nostalgic. Reminisce about the first time you met or your first kiss. 7. Talk about your turn-ons. Is there something she did or said recently that really got you in the mood? Is there something you recently did that made her go hmm...?

What do women want in the bedroom...

Some men, who are virgins, are so embarrassed that they try to hide it from a woman. After speaking to numerous females, I found out that they wouldn't have a care in the world if their man actually was. In fact, it turns them on and even admires that quality of being able to hold it off until they meet Miss Right.

If you have finally decided that you no longer want to just have a one night stand with your woman, then it's a must that you add variety and romance into the bedroom.

Women need flirtation

Unlike men, they don't just jump for joy once you drop your trousers. They need to slowly get into the mood.

Some men find it so hard to add romance into their relationship, yet it can be quite simple. We men just make it hard. Romance is actually so important in the relationship. Without it, the woman will never truly be in the mood and feel sexy. Romance enables the women to make the move on men into the bedroom.

Examples of being romantic could be as easily as going to your local florist and grabbing a dozen of dark red roses and a box of chocolates. Or if you're truly a romantic at heart, try buying rose petals and sprinkling them all over the floor leading from the door to the bedroom and bathroom. It acts like a path to where you want to lead her to go to.

A family man

Although most men expect women to be the cook, why not learn to cook up some simple dishes for the both of you. (Notice why so many chefs are actually males, we do have this talent in us).

Create a three course meal and even add a printed menu of what's being served for the night. Don't go over board or else you two will ended up falling a sleep after a massive meal and just want to head for bed. However, make sure dessert is on the menu, it's a must.

First and foremost, what you need is a step by step plan. This includes making sure you clean up your home so the whole environment is welcoming to shopping and cooking as mentioned earlier.

Having a plan leaves nothing to be accidentally missed and also relieves any final moment stress, thinking there is something that you might have left out.

Just ask her

Unlike men, women know how to communicate their needs very subtly. Men on the other hand, don't know how. If you want something from a woman, just ask. Even ask her what she would like that turns her on.

Women enjoy making both romantic and playful love. Most men just want to get right into it but it doesn't work that way.

At times it can, but the enjoyment from the woman's side would die out very quickly so try to break off this habit. This will ensure that the both of you are enjoying it and it's not just a one sided affair.

Know her needs

To finalize, it all comes to being considerate of the woman's needs. The true gentleman will ask. That is the way you can learn from each other as everybody is different. What one woman enjoys may not be another's cup of tea. If you don't ask, you won't know.

Lastly, compliment. This is where women are very similar to men. They want compliments to know that they also did a great job satisfying your needs as well because you had taken the time to satisfy her needs.

Following the above will ensure that making love is both romantic and long lasting.

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It's time to let go of HER...

This is a question many men find asking themselves. Both men and women do at times hold onto the hope that things will just 'work out' and things will eventually change for the better.

Should your time be spent elsewhere?

If you realize the woman that you have found isn't exactly or bluntly put no where near what you originally envisioned, perhaps its time to finally let go.

Some men think that all women are high maintenance but that is not true. It is true that any relationship needs effort to be put in on both sides and it does take two to tango. However, if you find that it is solely a one sided affair, and it takes so much effort on your end to consistently meet every demand she has of you and cannot see any reciprocation, you must step back and evaluate where will this relationship end up not too distance into the future. Its hard I know, I've been there. However it's better now than never. Why not die once than die a thousand deaths?

When I talk about low maintanance women, I am talking about someone who is emotionally stable doesn't have mood swings. She also doesn't complain day in and day out. She is one who can let things go even if it's your error. That is so important. We men know when we've done something wrong but we definitely do not need someone to remind us all day long!

We are who we are. We can change for the better and it must only be for the better. However, if the woman you're dating expects every thing of you to change in order to meet her expectations of you, you would not be happy long term.

We men are problem solvers, this is our nature. Unlike men, women do not necessarily want things solved even after they have told us. So if you find yourself with a woman who complains all the time yet wants nothing solved and just wants an ear to listen to everyday, you're better to just move on. She is not going to change. That is her nature.

You need to find someone who truly allows you to be yourself and makes you feel happy. If being with someone seems like a task, why bother. It is clearly not enhancing your experience of life.

Ask yourself this. If you find that your relationship is more work than enjoyment, you can only end it and find someone else.

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Men's G-Spot: Explore the unexplored in your man

And you always thought why only guys explored girl's G-spot. Perhaps, that's becuase she dint know you had one. Calling girls : Get down to know the sensitive spots in your man.

1. G-spot

It's a moan's world, after all, so they too have a g-spot. Well, speaking of it more technically, it's a gland under his bladder, commonly called as Prostate gland. It's said that when they're about to reach orgasm, pressing the gland, gives them an instant sexual high and thus, these oragsms are much more intense.

2. Behind the ear

This is a very common spot which gives your man the adrenaline rush. It's an erotic zone. The whole area around the ear is very sensitive. Give him wet kisses their. You may also exhale your warm breath and create the erotica. Nibbling and sucking the earlobe, and gradually moving your nose down his neck will lead him into wildness.

3. The tailbone

Rubbing the tailbone causes huge amounts of sexual energy. Ask your guy to lie face down then while kissing and caressing his back and spine, place two fingers on his tailbone and gently spiral your fingers around that area continuing to kiss him all over. That's also his hidden erogenous zone. Within minutes you will see him begging for more.

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7 steps to get your dream woman in 7 days

If you're anything like most men then you probably spend more time wishing you had a girlfriend than you do going out to meet women. This is often called procrastination. It's when you put things off that you know you should be doing. So take this week to start improving your dating life.

1. Make Time To Go Out

It's impossible to have any kind of a dating life if you don't make time to meet women. Set aside at least one night out of the week for you to get out on the town. That shouldn't be too much for even the busiest of men. Cut back on watching TV and playing video games if you have to. You have to invest some time and effort into your social life just like you would for anything else.

2. A Hobby That Will Allow You To Meet Women

Next up is to find something that you can do in your spare time that allows you to meet more women and people in general. This could be dancing lessons, cooking classes, joining a bowling league, yoga, or something else all together. If you can find something where women outnumber men a great deal then you will be in a great situation.

3. Improve Your Look

Is there something about your appearance you would like to improve on? Would you just like to change things up? Try getting yourself a new haircut, some new clothes, and a daily workout plan. Just a few tweaks here and there will make you feel good about yourself. Let's not forget that it will also get the attention of others.

4. Meet Women Throughout The Day

You're going to have to leave the house at some point. Why don't you start some conversations with women while you are out buying groceries, going for a walk, or at the mall? Your conversations don't have to be long. Just say a few words to see where things can go from there.

5. Make It Your Goal To Say "Hi"

Don't waste all your time trying to think of the prefect words to say. There are no perfect words and never have been. Just say "Hi" when you see a woman you would like to meet. It's a normal thing to do and you won't have to look like a creep. If she sends out a friendly vibe you can then ask her questions about herself to get her talking.

6. Get Over Your Past

When you fall in love you are also risking yourself to get hurt. The problem is that once you get hurt you start to fear getting hurt again. You have to give yourself enough time to get over things, but also not dwell on your past forever. All fear must be conquered in order to achieve the life that you want. Recognize that there is a difference between the feelings of pain and fear of feeling pain.

7. Identify The Type Of Woman You Want

Problem is that a lot of guys get themselves into dating any woman that will have them. Attractive men are picky and set very high standards for the women that they bring into their life. Just dating any woman is a sign of desperation.

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First date: Blonde v/s Brunette

London: They are known for having the most fun - but when it comes to first dates, blondes are more likely to have their romantic hopes crushed than their dark-haired friends, a poll has found.

According to the study of 1,300 people, by Internet dating firm Parship.co.uk, flaxen-haired hopefuls are a quarter more likely to have their dreams of true love shattered within hours of meeting a new man than a brunette or redhead.

Apparently, blondes are the most likely of anyone to have tried to seduce a first date with recollections about an ex, seen their judgement impaired by drinking too much, and bed their date at the end of the night, reports The Telegraph.

Penny Conway, from the online dating firm, said: "Although it's unlikely a person will behave differently simply because of their hair colour, they may act out of character if they are being treated badly, or according to a stereotype.

"In films blondes are often assumed as being clueless or as having more fun.

"How we are treated by other people can influence how we behave, so this may explain why blondes are more likely to behave badly compared to brunettes or red heads, or go home with their dates on the first night."

From the study, the company found that misguided ideas of alluring behaviour - including turning up late, running away from a partner - was responsible for dampening any first flames of passion.

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Overcome the fear in 3 steps about rejection by a women.

One of the biggest reasons most men don't approach women is because of their fear of rejection. We all want people to like us and we want their approval. This probably holds true even more when that someone is a woman we are attracted to.

So what can you do to overcome that fear of rejection?

I'm going to give you three basic tips that will get you going in the right direction.

Tip #1: Make Your First Attempt A Small One

A lot of men put too much pressure on themselves by getting too ambitious. They try to get too perfect with their first words or get to perfect with their first impression. When the woman they approach doesn't respond well to those things it leaves them with a huge disappointment. That disappointment may cause them to never want to approach another woman ever again.

What you do instead is keep things small and simple. Don't tell her she is beautiful and buy her flowers. What you can do is simply say "Hi". If she ignores you it won't mean as much because you have less invested. It also says a lot about the type of woman she is.

Tip #2: She Only Rejects What She Knows About You

Let's say you just met a woman and have had a nice 10 minute conversation with her. You like her and you think she might like you. So you have decided that before you go you would like to ask her out or get her number. You take a deep breath and fire away. What does she say? She says "No".

Does a woman who has talked to you for 10 minutes really know you all that well? No she doesn't. She can only reject you based on what she knows about you after a 10 minute conversation. She has hardly even got a taste of how amazing you are. Don't take rejection from a woman that hardly knows you too serious.

Tip #3: Focus On The Moment

The more you think about yourself the more you fear rejection. Do I sound stupid? I must look like a fool? There is no way I could approach a woman or ask her out because I feel like an idiot.

All that negative chatter that grows through your mind needs to be replaced with enjoyment. Enjoy meeting new people, enjoy the rush of approaching a beautiful woman, and enjoy finding out what makes her so interesting. Don't focus on your or the outcome. Just focus on what you can get out of that moment.

Finally...

Most of the time when you are rejected it hardly has anything to do with you personally. The one way you can know if it is your fault is if every person responds to you in the same way. If that is the case it's probably because you are doing something wrong. For now stick with the three tips I have given you. They should give you a nice boost.

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