Thursday, December 31, 2009

What to do when SEX is over?

ghlth080320couple12p.hmediumAfter sharing an intimate session with your partner, what would be the best thing to do? It’s only normal that you want to uphold that intimacy through talking, kissing and cuddling.

Usually couples fails to understand the significance of after-sex talk. It’s like taking over sex even after the act is over. Believe me, there can be nothing as comforting as lying in his/her arms and starting with that sensual talk.

Following are few things you can try post sex session:

Cute Cuddle

Don’t tell me you don’t know this? Every woman loves it when her man finishes doing his thing only to spin her around and hug her in the spoon position. That's the goldmine of loving actions.
Flipping her around isn't even required, but some kind of bodily touch is significant here. Something as small as wrapping your arms around her can make all the difference. But, if you can’t open your eyes anymore, just close your eyes, wrap your arms around her and say ‘I love you’.


Don’t touch her again

May be your woman is one who does not want any sort of affection once the love session comes to a halt. Why? Well, some women confessed that their senses become heightened to the point where any form of touching is too exacerbating for them.

Let’s talk

Even though loads of guys aren't big fans of the "embrace," there are even less men around who want to talk once the feat is over. But if she wants to converse, you may have to keep your ears open and listen up. Probability is that she will talk about what went down -- particularly if you had her yelling out like a specter.
If you want to take a catnap at this point, you won't be able to doze off totally as she might be affronted if you start snoring when she's in the middle of reciting her second orgasm.

Let's do it again

If she is still not out of the first round, prospect is she'll be all over you, doing her best to let you know that the evening calls for a second round. Between playing with her and stroking your penis, you may just find yourself going into round two before you know it.
But if you're older and more comfortable in your relationship, odds are that you may not be as effortlessly aroused for round two, and, of course, that isn't your fault.

Source: Megha Chaturvedi

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