Top 5 reasons to stay single

Getting married is often portrayed in rosy terms. A religious ceremony followed by an exciting reception can seem to be a wonderful start to the merging of two lives into one. But all too often the sad reality is that such unions don't last. It may be for a number of reasons.

1. You're not sure you love your intended. Naturally, you may get cold feet before the ceremony. Any smart person can be expected to draw back from the prospect of a life-long union with one person until one of you dies. Since no one can predict how things will turn out, you don't know how the next fifty years will work for you both as a couple. So you need everything in your corner, especially love.

2. You're not ready to stop playing the field. If you enjoy the company of many others as well as your betrothed, you're not ready to settle down with one person. While it can be fun to flirt or have a dating fling, these things need to be left at the door when the groom carries his bride over the threshold. In marriage, you can't have your cake and eat it too.
3. Your finances aren't stable. If you are unemployed, partially employed, earn low income, or have few benefits, you may want to delay getting married. While money is not a good main reason to get married or wait, it certainly is a vital contributing factor.

4. You don't have similar outlooks. Everyone has differing opinions, of course. But if your significant other maintains strong opinions that are very different from yours, it may be a good idea to delay marriage. Work on your differences first and get married later. Otherwise, you may end up fighting all the time.

5. You can't agree on relationships with others. If you fight over how to discipline the children, how to manage current in-law dilemmas, and whether either of you is flirting with co-workers, postpone the marriage and work on these issues. They are significant enough to warrant time before the wedding to sort through them.

Give your relationship time to mature before making a life-long commitment. Keep in mind the old saying, "Marry in haste, repent in leisure."

Source: Agency

If it’s your first kiss…

Now, since it’s been a long time that you guys are in a relationship but are still that ice is not broken. Well I think more often than not, the first kiss is the clincher for couples; it is the one that helps them make up their mind on whether they wish to kiss the opposite person again.



When a kiss is great, it can be electrifying for both. When it is bad … well, let's just say there isn't a lot of hope for a second date. Here are some tips to keep in mind the next time you're getting ready to pucker up.

Beloware few styles of kissing you may experiment with:

Innocent cheek kiss
The kiss that you usually prefer on your first date. A gracious, "I really like you" kiss. There are less chances of any mss in this.

Butterfly Kiss
Your faces less than a gasp away, open and close your eyelids alongside your partners. If done properly, the quiver sensation will match the one in your heart.

Archangel Kiss
This is a lovable, soothing kiss. Tenderly and ever so lightly kiss your partner either on the eye lid or right next to the eyes.

Chill Kiss
Put a small piece of ice in your mouth, then open mouth and kiss your partner, passing them the ice with your tongue. It's an erotic and sensual French kiss with a twist of cold.

French Kiss
Kiss linking the tongue. Some call this the "essence Kiss" since the life and soul are thought to pass through the mouth's breath in the exchange across tongues.

Forehead Kiss
Purely brush your lips flippantly across the crown of their head. The "caring" kiss or "just friends" kiss. The forehead kiss can be a comforting kiss to anyone.


Hand Kiss
In ancient times this kiss was complete with bows, which show regard to a lady. Gently raise her hand to your lips. Lightly brush your lips across the top of her hand.

Source: Megha Chaturvedi

Putting Your Tongue to The Best Use!

Wellington: Clearly the minds of Australian cricketers are elsewhere as they prepare to take on New Zealand in the first Twenty20 international here tomorrow night.

On Wednesday, according to the New Zealand Herald, Australian coach Tim Nielsen made a verbal slip-up on arrival when he said: "We haven`t had a lot of sex, um, success over here".

On Thursday, it was vice-captain Michael Clarke who was tongue-tied.

Asked about New Zealand paceman Shane Bond, Clarke said he featured high on their gameplan for tomorrow. How high, we had no idea.

"We`ll have a good look at footage of bondage... ahmm, Bondy," said Clarke, as the guffaws began again.

"``Geez I feel like the coach, what`s going on," he continued with a grin.

Clearly Nielsen had suffered among the team for his slip-up, and as Clarke departed the press conference he knew the same fate would likely befall him.

"Front page, I can see it now...," he said, making a hurried exit.

Source: ANI

Sex on the beach? Think twice!

A beach sounds like the perfect place for making out. The sound of waves matching to your moans, the smell of the ocean blending with your body smell, sand scrubbing your body…umm…just too tempting, isn’t it?

Enough of fantasy, let’s get down to reality. Sex on the beach might sound like the best thing on earth, but trust me, it isn’t!
Read on…

Awkward moment in public

Until you have a private island of your own, sex on the beach can be an affair to be viewed by others. Being caught in a compromising position even in your bedroom would be such a moment of embarrassment. Imagine the same on a beach in full public view with police fining you for public nudity.

Scrape-off your skin

A scrub massage is fantastic, but burning sand and hard stones rubbing against your body can cause only abrasions. It would hurt your bodies’ big time; cause your skin to burn if it’s a bright sunny day.

Oops! More than him in your vagina

The sand would obviously stick to your exposed body when you’re blissfully enjoying your sand-scrub. Sand around the opening of the penis or inside the vagina or anywhere around these sensitive areas can be very hazardous. Sand can make the condom tear, pave way for STDs and increase the risk of pregnancy.

Swimming sperms vs. swimming bacteria

Underwater love making seems like your ultimate fantasy, but here’s the reality check. The sea water, blessed with innumerable bacteria when would enter your vagina. This again would higher the risk of urinary tract and other infections.

And you were dying to make your ultimate fantasy come true?

Source: Ekta Oberoi

Before you go LINGERIE SHOPPING for her

Diamonds might be a girl’s best friend but when it comes to a gift, nothing beats a pair of sensuous lingerie. A sexy lingerie set gifted by you would be the most cherished possession for her.

So, if you’re planning to give her a reason to smile and value your gift forever, you must keep in mind the following to ensure that you end up giving her the best piece possible:


Get your basics right

Imagine gifting a super sexy pair of lingerie, but in a wrong size. Boy, get your basics right. Dig into her wardrobe to find her correct size before you venture out. Find the kind of brasserie and underwear she prefers wearing, and gift her something similar if you’re not too sure of your shopping skills.

Match it with her personality

It’s good to give something different to your partner, especially when it comes to gifts. But please make sure you don’t give her something that is completely opposite to her personality. If she likes girly, lacy, flowery stuff, don’t buy something outrageously bold like a leopard print, push-up corset. She might keep it for your sake, but would be extremely uncomfortable wearing it.

But if she’s the outgoing, experimental kinds, even the leather ones or the see through ones would make her go week in the knees. She’d love to flaunt that tiny underwear just for you.

In sync with her body type

Understand her body type and buy your gift accordingly. If she’s voluptuous and fuller, then a baby doll thing which is fitted from the bust and loose at the bottom is a good option.

If your girl is on the leaner side, then a nighty gown with ruffles and flares would suit her.

If she’s on the heavier side then totally avoid nets and see-through stuff. Lycra too is a big noo for it has a tendency to stick to the body, highlighting the curves (and bulges). Buy something satin for it feels good on skin and in darker shades for a slimming effect.

Keep the above in mind before you venture out in the store. Buy her the best gift of her life and bring on the best in her.

Source: Ekta Oberoi

SLEEP POSITION reveals more than SEX POSITION

If you and your partner cuddle up in "spoons" position all night or have your backs facing each other in bed, then these might just be more than mere sleeping positions.

According to life doctor Pam Spurr, the body language in bed could be a telling indicator of your emotional status in a relationship.

The Sun explained some of the main sleep positions and their meaning.

The spoons (him behind)
You both lie on your sides, him facing your back.
The meaning: He's protective of you and quite traditional. He can get sensual reaching around and caressing every part of you. Beware if you never kiss/cuddle in this sleep position as it may become too platonic.

The spoons (her behind)
You both lie on your sides, you facing his back.
The meaning: You are very nurturing and the backbone of the relationship. He is not afraid of letting go of responsibilities and you being his emotional anchor. Fab as long as your needs aren't neglected.

Poles apart
Your backs face each other, with a wide gap between them.
The meaning: The intimacy is breaking down and you may be too independent of each other. If being independent suits you both then it’s okay, as long as you say a warm goodnight. But be careful you aren't using this position to shut each other out.

Pushed out
One sprawls in a starfish shape, the other faces away, clinging to the edge of the bed.
The meaning: The sprawler dominates your relationship and they might be selfish and unaware of their partner's needs. If you are the one pushed out, ensure you start asserting yourself during the day.

Need You
One lies on their back, the other is cradled in the crook of their arm cuddled up to them.
The meaning: The partner on their back provides emotional strength and is happy offering emotional support to the other partner who is more needy.

Mixed messages
One lies tucked up in the foetal position, facing the other who is flat on his/her back.
The meaning: The one in the foetal position needs comfort but feels unable to express their needs to their partner, who is oblivious to their needs. Identify what is going wrong and start talking about it.

Submissive
One lies on their stomach, their fingertips reaching out to their partner who lies on their back or side.
The meaning: The partner reaching out is submissive in the relationship - the power lies with the other partner.

Pure lust
Very cuddled up, with your legs entwined and the erogenous zones snuggled into each other.
The meaning: There is loads of passion and sensuality, and you are probably in the honeymoon phase
Source: ANI

10 Lies That Men Tell!

The average man lies six times a day, that's twice as often as women.

Here are some of the most common lies they tell…

"I'm Stuck in Traffic"
The most common one, if he’s running late. He’d never want to accept that he actually could not keep a check on the time and end up taking the responsibility for it. Blame it on the traffic.

"It Wasn't That Expensive"
They’d buy something and not tell you the actual price, just to prove that they are responsible with money.

"I'm on My Way"
Something they do not want to attend but really can’t ignore it either, they’d just endup reaching for it late and further keep on delaying it.

“I Didn't Have Too Much to Drink"
An alcohol issue is something that is of a concern. Men always lie about how much they have had to have, so you need to keep a check.

"Sorry, I Missed Your Call"
"My Battery Died"
"I Had No Signal"
These are the most common lies used to hint at you at he wants you to be a bit off him. He’s trying to avoid or ignore you. He wants some time alone.

"No, Your Butt Doesn't Look Big in That"
I guy would always lie about this one for he does not want you to disown him in the bed. So if you want an honest opinion, ask one of your girl friends.

"This Will Be My Last Beer"
When he’s out with his buddies, he wants some time with them. The only time when he wants you completely out of his system, so that he can relive some of his guy moments again.

"Nothing's Wrong, I'm Fine"
A whopping 52 percent of men have told their girlfriend this line. You need to work that charm and poke him further to get the real thing out.

Source: Kanika Sharma

How About xex With Your Ex?

It’s been quite long since you have been broken up with your ex and haven’t had sex with anyone since.

Now you have this sudden craving to just “do it” with some one.

You really don’t want to make a wrong choice as far as choosing a partner for it is concerned.

So the first or the last thought that comes to your mind is about your ex.

Even if you are desperate to rid yourself of your virginity, you need to think about whether you should with an ex.

If he's so keen on you and wants to have sex, then why is he your ex? Think about how you're going to feel if you sleep with him and then he loses interest. Is this something that doesn't bother you? Or would you like to continue the relationship once you've had sex with him? It's important you work out what you want and be aware that you may have to cope if things don't go your way.

Either you should be confident about being so strong that you are able to digest the fact about being a “fuck buddy” with your ex. You need to be sure to keep the emotional touch out of it.

A guy may say he feels he's got a high sex drive for a girl but it's not just boys that have high sex drives.

It's natural to feel desperate to have sex and plenty of it. And some women have to have several orgasms a week in order to feel relaxed and happy and satisfied. In that, they're no different from men. But having sex with the wrong person is not necessarily a good idea.

Sex is a normal, natural thing, but people often feel better about themselves if they reserve sex for partners who truly value them, so maybe it's worth you working out if your ex loves you the way you love him.

SEX Dreams? Why?

Feeling sexually aroused in the middle of the night? You get no outlet to let go off your feelings. So you end up sexing up your dreams.

But don’t get scared, having wet dreams, is not something bad. Here are some facts that you should know before you panic.

• Wet dreams are normal they are believed to happen when the body is not getting release from the hormonal build up of the teen years or sudden "dry spells" in sexually active individuals.

• Girls do get wet dreams, but they are far more common and much messier in guys.

• Masturbation can, but won't always, put a stop to frequent wet dreams.

• Some experts theorize that wet dreams are one of the many sub conscious ways that the body handles stress - they seem to happen more frequently in teens and young adults because this age group is thought to be under extreme stress.

• Wet dreams are not drug induced.

• Wet dreams do not signal a sexual abnormality or mean you are sexually unusual.

• Wet dreams have nothing to do with being gay or straight, the type of wet dreams you have in no way represent your sexuality.

• Wet dreams about taboo subjects like; incest, animals, rape, sex with a superior or elder, public sex, group sex, and homosexuality are common and do not have anything to do with your waking sexual preferences (it doesn't mean you secretly want to do these things).

• There is no reason to ever feel guilty about having a wet dream, they are subconscious and can not be easily controlled or manipulated.

• Many people have wet dreams and don't even know it is happening, for guys the morning mess is often the only evidence and for girls they can go unnoticed - for this reason they may be more common in girls than is currently believed (under reporting may be the real reason girls seem to have them less often).

Source: Kanika Sharma

How acceptable is office romance?

Office romances do not bother most of your colleagues as long as work is not negatively affected at the workplace.

Most people believe romantic relationships are OK as long as they don’t affect productivity, de-motivate other colleagues or have an impact on the work environment on the whole.


Nina Cole from the Ryerson University conducted a study that involved 100 employees who at one point of time, had a love relationship in their workplace.

The average length of these office romances was found to be 20 months.

Some companies take managerial actions in cases when: the performance of co-workers was negatively affected
where the work environment was negatively impacted
when negative emotion from a break-up affected a work environment

Though the employees do not seem to be bothered of office romances, most of them objected in case of a romantic relationship between a manager and an employee of the same department.

Its common to share a relationship with a colleague when one spends maximum time in office, however, company policies should be clear on the fact that romantic relationships should not affect the workplace.

Source: Agency

Break-up day: An end to the lovelorn Valentine’s week

The lovelorn Valentine’s week has come to an end today with break-up day. Today is the day when finally decided to call of your relationship.

Here we are with a few tips on how to call-off your relationship, with etiquettes…

Talk it out: For heaven’s sake the person in question deserves to be told in person via verbal communication and not a text message. Shooting an e-mail or dropping in an sms is such purely bad manners. If you are not comfortable facing the person, at least talk to them over the phone.

Not a public place: You wouldn’t want your break-up to make National headlines, right? So, better not chose a public place for this extremely personal affair. You can’t be too sure of how your partner is going to react to the breaking news, so why take the risk of pacifying a sobbing or screaming soul in public?

No blame-game: Yes, you did have issues with your partner, and that is precisely why you decided to take a call. But that doesn’t mean that he/she is the only reason for the fallout. The relationship was between the two of you, so you’d be as much responsible for the break-up. Don’t blame it all on your partner; be a little sensitive (and sensible).

Hear it out: Maybe your partner would be out of words for a couple of moments, but hear patiently what follows. You’ve said what you had to, so give the other person a chance to talk and hear what they have to say.

Be prepared for the lull: Unless you have another option to fall back on, chances are that you would feel the emptiness and hollowness in your life. Remember, you talked it out and when it didn’t seem to workout, it was only then that you took this decision. You’d be tempted to make a call to know if he/she’s okay, but resist all temptations! If the feeling still trouble you, consult your friends and decide what’s to be done.

Discover Some Wild Facts About Your Wife!

The age-old belief that men have no idea when it comes to basic facts about their wives has been determined credible after a poll.
According to the results of the poll, men were clueless about the clothes size worn by their better halves. They are clueless about what her favourite perfume is and even doubtful about her hair colour.

One in ten were oblivious to their wife's date of birth, while 8 to 12 per cent were unaware about their eye colour.

One in three were ignorant about what her favourite perfume was and 27 per cent confessed purchasing the wrong size of clothes or underwear.

Women expect their husbands to be aware of their basic details, likes and dislikes. However, the shocking results revealed that men were not sure about the basic details like date of birth, hair colour and favourite food of their partner.

Top 5 things men don't know about their partner:
•Year of Birth
•Clothes size
•Eye colour
•Favourite perfume
•Natural hair colour

Source: Agency

Want to attract your partner this V day

If you are looking out to attract a partner, try and appear more helpful. Changing the way an individual acts and not just attraction that is more appealing to the opposite gender.

The research is led by University of Sussex, that discovered that people rated those faces higher that appeared beneficial to them. A set 64 volunteers were asked to rate the faces they was on the computer screen in a scale of 100 to minus 100.

The volunteers were asked to concentrate on the dots that appeared either right or left on the screen. Before appearing, the faces were shown either looking to the left or right, while the volunteers were asked to concentrate on the dots alone. Later they were asked to once again rate the faces on their attractiveness.

Almost 57 percent of the people thought that those faces appeared attractive that pointed the dots on the correct direction. The results also proved that faces of the opposite gender were more affective in attracting the attention of the participants.

"In other words, women pay more attention to where men look and vice versa. The faces that gave accurate cues as to where the target dot appeared increased in attractiveness," the Telegraph quoted Dr. Beena Khurana as saying.

"The traditional belief is that the more we find a face attractive the more we pay attention to it. But here we show that we can cause a face to become attractive as a function of the way it behaves. "We think that perceived attractiveness is both dynamic and responsive to the behavior of people," she added.

Source: Agency

SEX can harm if

Lovemaking is a much-craved pleasurable experience for many men. However a recent study, led by the University of Nottingham, found that men suffer the negative health impacts of lovemaking than women.

The interesting fact is that the impacts of lovemaking shifts from negative to positive as the man gets aged. Men who are very sexually active at the age of 20s and 30s are at a higher risk of prostrate cancer. However the frequent sexual activity in a man’s forties have little impact on his health. If you are sexually active in your fifties, you are a lucky one, since the action will offer you protection against many diseases.

His hormone levels always control a man’s sexual activity and these hormones play a key role in prostrate cancer. Therefore a check on man’s sexual activities like how often he masturbates, had intercourse, how many sexual partners he had had and whether he had any sexually transmitted diseases etc will reveal his prostrate cancer risk.

The study found out that the release of accumulated toxins during sexual activity is more at the age of 20s and 30s than at a later age. This release of toxins is more in masturbation than in an intercourse. The release of toxins reduces by the age of 40 and men are less prone to sexual activity by this time. This theory has, however, not been firmly established and further researches are going on about this!

Source: Agency

5 Sexual Highs that Push his Passion Button!

Your man definitely craves for something unusually seductive. So, we bring to you 5 sexual highs that push his passion button on:

•If your guy stop taking interest in the sex you're having it's probably because he's a bit bored. So the hottest thing you could do is to tell him that he can ask for anything he craves for, even if you choose not to give him what he’s asking for. Your guy will be turned on by your efforts of understanding and listening.

•Men have a love-hate relationship with your sex toys. Some love them, as they take the pressure off their performance and some feel jealous, as they don’t have long lasting batteries like these machines to keep the rock n roll going but what your guy may not be telling you is that he loves watching you use. So, get down, dirty and start off a steamy sex romp.

•All men love watching porn and if you both watch porn together on a steamy night, then your guy is definitely going to get aroused watching you becoming out-of-control and mimicking the women in the porn flick. So, get into some serious role play and scale new heights of desire.

•For a hot and steamy sex session in the bedroom, it is very important to stimulate his mind. Don’t jump into the sack right away. Start with a nice shoulder massage or sit on his lap and kiss him all over his body. After all it is very important to charge the machine before using it, right!

•Men get turned on when you put on his shirts, spray his strong manly scent and seduce him because at the end of the day fun lies in experimentation right!

Source: Lovely

Make It Special For Your Valentine!

Wondering what you should do for your valentine this time?

Here are a few tips for you to make it subtle yet special…

Gift wrap a wishbone in jewelry box and send it to her with a note that says, "I wish you were here."

Unplug the TV. Put a note on the screen saying, "Turn me on instead."

Write him a little love note. Insert it into the book he's reading or may be his office bag.

Make a BIG banner just to say "I love you!" Use construction paper and crayons, or poster board and markers, or old sheets and spray paint.

Want to jazz up the presentation of a special meal? Buy a little hunk of dry ice from a local ice house. Put it in a bowl of water and place it on your serving tray. You'll create wondrous, billowing white clouds!

Dress up for dinner at home. Tuxedo for him, an evening gown for her.

Hire a limousine for an elegant evening out.

Have dinner-for-two prepared in your home by the best chef in town.

Give her one thousand Hershey's Kisses. Remove all the little paper strips (that say "Kisses" on them) from a couple hundred Hershey's Kisses. Fill a little jewelry box with them. Wrap them up and present them to her. Write a clever certificate explaining that the little paper slips are coupons redeemable for one kiss each.

One of the last things to remember:

The unasked-for gift is most appreciated. The surprise gift is most cherished.

Source: Kanika Sharma

When To Say "I Love You"!

Really want to tell someone that you love them. When could be the right moment?

When you are in your senses

The best way to camouflage your true self or your true feelings, is to booze. When you really love someone, you should put under a disguise. More often than not, one speaks his heart out when one is not in his senses, but if you really want to say those 3 words to someone, be sure you are in your senses, so that you can actually mean it. Moreover, then you have a reason to pop up that bottle.

Not in the moment

During a hot, steamy session with beau, one tends to say it getting all caught up in the moment. That could create a confusion, that if it is the orgasm that is making you say it, or may be what he is doing in the bed. So, save it for the later. If you are really liking what your partner does to you when you are together in bed, do tell him that, but not with just those three words.

Let him see it in your eyes

Over the phone, via e-mail, or by text message are all really bad ways to express your love to someone for the first time. If you feel that strongly, look him in the eye and say so. Two, regardless of how many emoticons you throw in an e-mail or text, the message often gets ignored and is not taken seriously. Tell him to his face, so he can read the sincerity in your eyes.

Be the first one

If you think that your partner is having a hard time initiating it, so say it first and take the pressure off him. Guys have an easier time saying “I love you too.” It also gives a boost to their ego and manhood.

What the hell, do it! Ultimately, you love him, don’t you?

Source: Kanika Sharma

How to get a girl by V-day?

With Valentine’s week in progress, you know the D-day is just around the corner. Don’t sigh that you don’t have the special one this Valentine.

Get up and get going and get yourself a Valentine this year. Just follow these simple steps and wake up to have the special one by your side this V-day.

Go for a makeover

The current look is just not working right for you. Nobody seems to take notice of the lover in you. Just chuck that old look and get yourself a brand new look. Chic hairstyle, smooth skin, tidy dressing and the right kinda attitude… Go killer!

Attend the JAM sessions

You must be seen at the places where you’d find pretty faces around. Salsa nights and JAM sessions are just the right kinda places to spot the hot n happening females.

Break the ice

C’mon, you can’t be hanging around at a hotspot like a looser without having balls to approach the lady. Brace yourself and gather your guts to advance towards the fairer sex with a cordial “Hi”. If she too finds you interesting, you surely will have a long conversation with her.

Identify your target

Now that you’ve spotted some lovely chicks around you, identify the one you’d really want to be with this Valentines. Get to know her a bit more, know what she likes and make your moves accordingly.

Finally, ask her out

Alright now, you pretty much know her by now and have a slight hint whether or not she’s interested in you. Conclude the hinting game and just ask her out.

Now that you have the special one by your side this Valentines, make the most of it and have fun !!

Source: Ekta oberoi

Sexul Infideity Not Accepted by Men:Why?

While it has been noted that women cannot digest emotional infidelity and men fail to accept sexual infidelity, new research has suggested that this difference in jealousy goes beyond gender differences.

Relationship attachment

The researchers said that such differences have more to do with how two people are attached in a relationship. Research has documented that most men become much more jealous about sexual infidelity than they do about emotional infidelity and women are the opposite. The prevailing theory is that the difference has evolutionary origins.

Men learned over eons to be hyper-vigilant about sex because they can never be absolutely certain they are the father of a child, while women are much more concerned about having a partner who is committed to raising a family.

But now, new study has offered an alternative explanation. The research does not question the fundamental gender difference regarding jealousy, indeed it adds additional support for that difference.

But the new science suggests that the difference may be rooted more in individual differences in personality that result from one's relationship history but that can fall along gender lines.

Infidelity over emotional attachment??

Pennsylvania State University psychological scientists Kenneth Levy and Kristen Kelly doubted the prevailing evolutionary explanation because there is a conspicuous subset of men who like most women find emotional betrayal more distressing than sexual infidelity.

The researchers suspected that it might have to do with trust and emotional attachment. Men and women alike are more secure in their attachments to others, while others tend to be more dismissive of the need for close attachment relationships.

Psychologists see this compulsive self-reliance as a defensive strategy protection against deep-seated feelings of vulnerability. The researchers hypothesized that these individuals would tend to be concerned with the sexual aspects of relationships rather than emotional intimacy.

They asked men and women which they would find more distressing sexual infidelity or emotional infidelity. Participants also completed additional assessments including a standard and well validated measure of attachment style in romantic relationships.

What topped the other

Findings confirmed the scientists' hypotheses. Those with a dismissing attachment style who prize their autonomy in relationships over commitment were much more upset about sexual infidelity than emotional infidelity.

And on the other hand, those securely attached in relationships including securely attached men were much more likely to find emotional betrayal more upsetting. The scientists state that these findings imply that the psychological and cultural-environmental mechanisms underlying sex differences in jealousy may have greater roles than previously recognized and suggest that jealousy is more multiply determined than previously hypothesized.

The study has been published in Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science.

Source: ANI

First time SEX FACTS

Sex for the first time is really special. The skin on skin feeling, bodies glued up with each other and a bit of nervousness. Some hesitations initially, but excitement overpowers all.

But, know these first time sex facts before you hit the bed.

• You can conceive having sex for the first time. It just requires one of the millions sperms to do the needful.

• You can get STD and AIDS too by having sex for the first time.

• Sex can be painful for the first time, especially for girls. In some cases, there can be bleeding as well. It so happens because girls have hymen which breaks the first time you have sexual intercourse.

• The penetration may take a few attempts. So, don’t push too hard. Relax and take it as it comes.

• You have to be a pro to get into the rhythm and cycles mode. Don’t fret if it’s not happening at the first go.

• Even if your mind wants to have sex, it is not necessary that your body would cooperate.

• For most men, it’s a quickie. You’ll be through and you won’t know for sure how it was.

Enjoy !!

Source: Ekta Oberoi

Spot the Cheater in Him!

You partner has not been his original self since a long time now. There is something different about him. He is not been his usual self.

You are really not sure about the reason, but you fear if he’s cheating on you.

Here’s how to decode his actions and know if he’s cheating on you or not.

You have become his “sweetie pie”
For the past one week, you have been getting flowers and chocolates. He has been extra sweet to you and has been treating you really well. Something’s wrong! The fact that he’s being extra nice to you just means he’s preparing you for the final blow. He wants to caress your ego before he finally decides to burst it.

He disconnects your phone
Initially every time you used to call him, he would take your call, even when he was busy. But now, he starts disconnecting your call. He becomes a bit hesitant in taking your calls in front of people he knows. What is he scared of? What is he hiding?

Secretive about new people in his life
You know about almost every friend of his. But the people he has been meeting for the past few months, you hardly even know their name. Supposedly, they are just acquaintances but he ends up spending most of the time with them. Ever wondered why?

Won’t discuss much about his prospective crush
You know her name, but all you know that there just this new person in his life. Whatever you have heard about his so called “friend”, is only negative praise. But don’t you think he is a bit too occupied with the negative thoughts?

A little too busy than usual
Doing extra hours at “work”? He has been to busy with his work since a long time. Going early and coming in late. And when you call up his work, no one answers! Wonder what he has been upto in those extra hours?

Get the hint!

Source: Kanika Sharma

How to be a Good Boyfriend...

A man can easily learn how to be a good boyfriend. All it takes is a little bit of practice and determination to do it. Willingness is the key for any man to learn how to be a good boyfriend. Unfortunately not all men are willing to study and do what it takes to be a good boyfriend.

Most men foolishly adopt a ‘love me or leave me' attitude wherein they are too stubborn to admit their shortcomings. These are usually the type of men that bank on the frailty of most women, the kind of women who would rather die than be left alone without a man.

However, men of this character must be living in the dark ages, as many women today would not tolerate this type of behavior. The modern woman of today is more discerning. Any man who would want to be in a relationship with her would certainly have to brush up on how to be a good boyfriend in order to keep her interested.

Fortunately there are still a lot of men who believe in giving their best in a relationship. These men take the initiative in learning how to be a good boyfriend to their significant other. And in the end reap the rewards of their labor with a loving and satisfying relationship.

Learning How to be a Good Boyfriend

Learning how to be a good boyfriend has a lot of advantages not just for women but also for men. A man that makes an effort to learn how to be a good boyfriend can look forward to a better and stronger relationship with their partner. An appreciative girlfriend will most likely shower her man with more love and affection than before. In addition, there will probably be less nagging that will surely be a welcome respite for any man.

However if a man still experiences the same type of treatment even after learning how to be a good boyfriend then there is something wrong. It would be a good idea to assess the relationship at this point. Perhaps the man is not to blame and the fault lies elsewhere.

Keep in mind that there are some women in the world that cannot be content unless they are nagging or criticizing something. At this point, a man may want to think if the relationship is still worth pursuing or if it would be time to move on and probably find someone who would appreciate them better.

A Guide on How to be a Good Boyfriend

A good boyfriend knows how to keep his girlfriend happy. Satisfying a woman is a comprehensive plan that does not only involve the sexual aspect of a relationship. A good way to do so is to make her feel special by complimenting her on how well she looks.

Women do their best to look pretty for their man and a little flattering remark goes a long way to show her that her efforts are appreciated. It is also a good idea for a man to evaluate his own physical appearance. As a woman takes the time to look good for her man therefore a man should also look good for his woman.

To show respect for her and her family is a trait of a good boyfriend that every man should adopt. A well-mannered man is polite and nice to his girlfriend's family. Women are particularly appreciative of a man that accepts and loves her family. Communication is a vital part of every relationship. Women cherish a man who listens and pays attention to what they have to say.

There are no hard and fast rules on how to be a good boyfriend. And learning how to be a good boyfriend is not easy. The enthusiasm to learn must be present. It is also important to be comfortable and at ease with oneself when undertaking such an education.

Being true to oneself is an important part of the learning process. A man forced into learning how to be a good boyfriend can develop negative emotions that would not be healthy for the individual and for the relationship. If a man were not interested in learning then he would only be fooling himself and his partner.

Source: Datehow

5 easy steps to make a girl squirt...

Learning how to make a girl squirt can be one of the most rewarding and powerful skills you will ever learn being a man. It can make women fall deeply and madly in love with you and give you unbelievable confidence. But why then are so many men utterly clueless when it comes to giving a such a high level of orgasm?

Probably the biggest reason why most men don't know how to please a woman is because they've never been taught. Modern society is not very open to increasing the pleasure a man and woman can experience together from sex. Simply put this kind of information is just not readily available.

What a lot of men don't realize is a woman's vagina is actually quite complex and it takes much more then just sticking something in and out to get her to squirt. We're going to focus on using our fingers to stimulate the g spot to get her off. As a bonus once you can give her an orgasm with your fingers she will be able to have multiple orgasms when you actually start having sex.

1. Don't go for the goods right away. You want to build up massive amounts of anticipation. Feel around her vagina but don't enter her right way rub all around it.

2. Once she's warmed up enter her with one finger and feel all the way around the walls of her vagina watching her body as an indicator to how it feels to her.

3. Let her know how much it gets you off being able to please her, tell her how good she feels, tell her how you love how turned on she gets. You want her to know that you thoroughly enjoy giving her pleasure this will more easily allow her to "let go" and have a squirting orgasm.

4. Begin To Stimulate her g spot using a come here motion. Vary it up between long and short strokes. The G Spot will begin to swell and balloon out as she gets closer and closer to climax.

5. She will begin to feel a sensation similar to her needing to pee but rest assured it is not pee it is her ejaculate. Tell her to push it out! Some women can squirt a lot and some women a little it just depends. Reassure her you want her to squirt all over!

As she orgasms and squirts her vagina will contract and pulse on your finger, never ask her if she had an orgasm YOU will know.

Source: Jason Julius

8 Myths about girl's virginity

Myth #1: A non-virgin walks with her legs wider apart.

Fact: How a girl walks is determined by her physical build - how wide her hip bones are or how fat her thighs are. It's also determined by her stride. This has nothing whatsoever to do with her virginity!

Myth #2: Hair between the eyebrows is gone after one loses her virginity.

Fact: This is one of the more bizarre stories. Hair between the eyebrows has nothing to do with virginity. If you happen to spot some hair between a girl's eyebrow which had never been there previously. it's simply because she has forgotten to pluck her eyebrows during the past few days!

Myth #3:A girls' fully-rounded backside suddenly flattens after she has sex.

Fact: If this were true, then there wouldn't be many of us walking around with nice, round, fully rear ends! It is impossible to lose tje elsaticity in your backside muscles simply through intercourse.

Myth #4: A virgin's breasts point upwards.

Fact: Virgins are just as likely to have sagging breasts!

Myth #5:One's breasts become larger after she loses her virginity.

Fact: Just like a guy obtains his erection through a rush of blood to his penis, a gal's breasts could also swell when aroused. But this subsides. It is rude and childish to assume that those with ample chests are all non-virgins.

Myth #6: A virgin's urine is clear and sparkling.

Fact: Virginity cannot be confirmed with urine test; only pregnancy can. Besides, the quality of your urine is determined by your water intake - the more water you drink, the cleaner and clearer your urine will be.

Myth #7: A girl who has done it before has "a certain kind of look" on her face.

Fact: This is what many guys would say, and it is purely nonsense. Common sense tells you that there is no such thing as the virgin or non-virgin look!

Myth #8: A girl will definitely bleed when she has sex for the first time. If she doesn't, then she is lying about being a virgin.

Fact: One of the more reasonbale points brought up, this is perhaps the most common excuse for determining whether one is a virgin, but it is a misconception. Bleeding occurs when the hymen, a thin menbrane that covers the opening of a female's vagina, tears during intercourse. Thus, the general belief is that bleeding indicates loss of virginity. However, the hymen could also tear through physical activities like cycling and excessive exercises (like in the case of gymnasts). If tampons are not used corectly, they can also break the hymen. Also, some girls don't bleed after their first intercourse because they have more flexible hymens. Therefore, non-bleeding doesn't mean girls are non-virgins, either.

Sound Advice: Take these claims with a pinch of salt. These so-called facts are either traditional folktales or the output of someone's highly imaginative mind. In short, ignore all the outrageous things people say about how they can tell if a girl is a virgin. The truth is, no physical change will take place when a female (or male) loses their virginity. Only a medical check-up can confirm virginity by affirming the presence of an intact hymen. A thorough check-up can also tell whether the hymen has been torn by a penetrating penis or from falling from a bicycle. Other than that, the only way is to ask, and hope for an honest answer.

Author: Raiha_Evelyn

Looking for a spot to HOOK-UP?

Wellington: A new research has found that offices are fast becoming the favourite new hotspots for singles looking for romance.

Over a third of Aussie workers have admitted to getting intimate with a co-worker and experts believe the number is the same in New Zealand.

"People are working long hours together…. They confide and go through adversity with each other and often socialise together," a news daily quoted Auckland psychologist Nathan Gaunt, as saying.

He pointed out: "People are spending less and less time outside of work. Opportunities to meet people [outside work] are diminished."

A study of nearly 1000 workers by Careerone.com.au found that 35percent of those who had an office romance called it short-term and 21 percent described it as long-term.

Only 5percent of workplace relationships ended in marriage. Over a third of those who had an office relationship had been "intimate" with a colleague in their workplace, with 6percent having been caught on the job.

However, relationship experts say office romances can be dangerous.

Gaunt said, "If the relationship dissolves it can cause a bit of anxiety in the office…. Some people feel pressure to leave the company."

Relationship Services clinical leader Louise Chapman said: "I`ve had people wanting to get out of relationships because they are seeing their boss and he is married. But there is the worry about what is going to happen to their job.

"And, on the other side, I have had bosses come in nervous because `she` has a hold on him and is afraid she is going to tell his wife."

Chapman added: "The same sort of stuff happens to people that aren`t in the same workplace but it`s more magnified when it`s at work."

"If it`s the accidental drunken thing it`s seen negatively anyway. Plus in some situations you are opening yourself up to allegations of sexual harassment," Dr Rachel Morrison, who lectures in workplace relationships at AUT, said.

Source: ANI

SEX with another SUN SIGN

A lesser known fact is that celestial bodies govern your sexual drive. Commitment or short term flings are ruled by your planetary moves.

Let’s see what your sunsign says about you…

ARIES
Strong, active and bundle of energy. That’s what describes an Arian. The fact that they are high on energy makes them a vigorous performer in bed. They are open to experiments when it comes to love making. Arians make a rocking couple with the wild Scorpions.

TAURUS
Romantic, passionate and compassionate are the traits of a Taurean. They are zealous and always prepared for an erotic session. When clubbed with a Cancerian, they can have moments of passionate bliss.

GEMINI
Experimental, playful and creative. You gotta be really creative in order to please you Gemini partner in bed. Leos can match with your temperament and can boost your sexual spirits really well.

CANCER
Spiritual, emotional and long for long term commitments. Short term pleasures do not satisfy Cancerians. Cancerians and Pisceans share a divine connection and emotionally stir each other.

LEO
Fiery, forward and very zealous. They are intense when it comes to sexual pleasures and love to be stimulated. Sagittarians compliment their passion and energy really well.

VIRGO
Articulate, skillful and pure perfectionists. To have a Virgo as a partner in bed, you’ll have to be a bit proficient. Your abilities compliment the practicality of Capricorns.

LIBRA
Committed, amicable and generous. These traits make Librans a very harmonious person in relationships. A Libran’s aim is always to address and satisfy his partner’s needs. Geminis bond very well with Librans and make for a very intellectually stimulating and socially popular couple.

SCORPIO
Creative, aggressive and passionate. They crave to have control over their partners over matters of sex. You share a hot and steamy relationship with Leos.

SAGITTARIUS
One night stands and short term hook ups characterize the relationship status of a true Sagittarian. Their composure in life makes them a great pair with Arians.

CAPRICORN
Slow, steady and warm are the Capricorns. Once you ignite the fire of passion in them, they are bound to take on another level of intimacy. The skillful and sensible Virgos attract the commitment oriented Capricorns.

AQUARIUS
Imaginative, creative and outgoing. An Aquarian would probably like to try every corner on the planet to make out. Geminis compliment your creative energies and you form a great compatible pair.

PISCES
Uncomplicated, short term hook ups determine the Pisces. You gotta be really creative and passionate to satisfy the sexual desires of a Piscean. Scorpions have the ability to fulfill the romantic fantasies of a Piscean.

Source: Ekta Oberoi