It’s been quite long since you have been broken up with your ex and haven’t had sex with anyone since.Now you have this sudden craving to just “do it” with some one.
You really don’t want to make a wrong choice as far as choosing a partner for it is concerned.
So the first or the last thought that comes to your mind is about your ex.
Even if you are desperate to rid yourself of your virginity, you need to think about whether you should with an ex.
If he's so keen on you and wants to have sex, then why is he your ex? Think about how you're going to feel if you sleep with him and then he loses interest. Is this something that doesn't bother you? Or would you like to continue the relationship once you've had sex with him? It's important you work out what you want and be aware that you may have to cope if things don't go your way.
Either you should be confident about being so strong that you are able to digest the fact about being a “fuck buddy” with your ex. You need to be sure to keep the emotional touch out of it.
A guy may say he feels he's got a high sex drive for a girl but it's not just boys that have high sex drives.
It's natural to feel desperate to have sex and plenty of it. And some women have to have several orgasms a week in order to feel relaxed and happy and satisfied. In that, they're no different from men. But having sex with the wrong person is not necessarily a good idea.
Sex is a normal, natural thing, but people often feel better about themselves if they reserve sex for partners who truly value them, so maybe it's worth you working out if your ex loves you the way you love him.
