Take over the charge tonight….Don’t wait for him to initiate sex, don’t suggest it yourself either, just pounce on him girl! You know it takes men less than 30 seconds to get turned on. Once he’s hard and hot, a wickedly sexy woman knows exactly how to exploit the power she has over him. Tell your guy to lie down on the bed, then use handcuffs, scarves, or a necktie to tether his hands together so he can’t touch you. (If you’re not game to use real restraints, you can simply hold his hands over his head.) Next, “you want to torture him playfully with your teasing .Slowly kiss your way down his torso, and just as you get to his pelvis, move back up to his ears and neck. After building up the erotic anticipation, it’ll be like setting a windup toy loose on your body...and hearing him describe how hot you are will turbocharger your experience too.
Try a mischievous costume
To infuse your sex sessions with more attitude try a naughty costume. If you’re feeling like a flirty, girlie tease, put on a white cotton untie set or pale pink lingerie and pull your hair into a ponytail, or don a schoolgirl-like plaid miniskirt with an oxford shirt tied above your navel.
To become an X-rated seductress, wear something red or black in sheer fabric or lace, then add crimson lipstick and paint your nails.. However in all this costume play, don’t put on something that’ll take more than a minute (at the max) to come off. You don’t want him tugging at your clothes all night! Just standing there in your flimsy finest may be enough, but a few teasing lines will definitely get the ball rolling. When playing the innocent card, say it’s your first time, and ask him what you should do. As a seductress, whisper all the different ways and places you want to touch him.
Dirty talking helps….
Moans and sighs (Oh! Oh!) are easy. It’s the dirty dialogue that really puts a triple-X stamp on your sex sessions. “Talking dirty heightens the whole experience, keeps you both present, and turns you on even more.“Plus, men actually like being told what to do in bed because it helps them get it right.”
First tell him how freakin’ good he feels. (Tongue-tied? Try no-fail lines like “You feel so/You make me [adjective]”; “I love it when you [verb] my [body part].”) Then you’re set to show him the way to send you soaring, with something like, “oooh, almost there. I need your [noun] on my [body part], just like this”.
Mirror your sex
Body confidence and carnal curiosity are key traits of a sex goddess, and both are on full display when you make a sex tape.
“Seeing yourselves midact gives you a voyeuristic thrill, almost as though you’re peeping into your own bedroom. It feels taboo, “You also get to see how your partner is responding and how you look when you’re getting off.”
If you’re worried about being a part of a sex tape scandal, skip the tape and put a mirror in front of your bed. Seriously, it can’t get more turning on when there’s two of you and two of him!
Give him a jolt
Breaking out of your touch-here-thenlick-there routine adds a lusty layer to the erotic experience. And fearless sexual playmates know that unexpectedly intense sexual maneuvers are even more exciting. "A forceful touch snaps your guy into the moment and heightens every sensation that follows," "The spontaneity also keeps him anticipating each touch, magnifying his excitement."
Plus, the implied roughness invites him to tap in to his primal, wild sexual self. Grip his butt hard while in missionary, scratch his chest and the sides of his torso while in girl-on-top, or yank his head toward you to give him a passionate, damn-straight kind of kiss. If those moves elicit an excited response, firmly spank his butt, lightly bite his shoulder, or tug his hair in the act, you devilish thing.
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