Monday, August 10, 2009

Breathe Life into a Dead, Dying or Dull Sex Life

It can happen to any couple, after a while of being together sessions in the sack can get a little stale. Not because you find each other any less attractive, or because the sex is bad, but simply because it’s the same old routine – you know exactly what’s going to go where and when, in fact you could almost set your clock by it!
When this happens, sex becomes less of a priority and less sex means less physical connection, which in turn leads to less emotional connection. Trying something new just might be the thing to breathe life into your sex life and relationship.

Communication
Realising that a change is needed is the first step for breaking out of a stale sex routine. The second is talking to your partner about it. This should be a positive conversation and not a personal attack! Let your lady know how much you love her, how much she turns you and how you’d like to explore some new things with her. If she is reluctant, don’t push it - you won’t unleash her inner sexual adventurer like that but you will push her away – just give an indication of the fun you would like to have together and give her time to come around to the idea. Once you’ve both agreed to try out some new things the fun can begin!

Go back to the start
Remember at the beginning of your relationship when everything was exciting and new? Well why not revisit those good old days together and remind yourselves why you fell for each other in the first place. Think honestly about whether you both still make the same level of effort now - do you still pay you each other the same amount of attention? Dedicate the same amount of time to foreplay? Make as much effort during sex? If the answer to any of those questions is no, then at least you’ll know where to start focusing your attention.

It’s also a great idea to have fun getting to know each other’s bodies all over again and find out exactly what it is that makes your partner tick sexually; it may have changed over time, so you could find that not what you’ve been doing for all of these years could have been better after all!

Have fun!
Have fun!Above all you and your partner should have fun during sex – you should laugh and play together. It is not something that should be treated to seriously. Take time out to dream up and plan sexual adventures together and explore each other’s fantasies. That could be experimenting with role-play, restraint gear, new positions, time of the day, new locations or sex toys and games. If
Try these saucy strategies to breathe life back into your sexual relationship and banish bedroom boredom for good!
By: Sarah Gipson
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