If you're anything like most men then you probably spend more time wishing you had a girlfriend than you do going out to meet women. This is often called procrastination. It's when you put things off that you know you should be doing. So take this week to start improving your dating life.
1. Make Time To Go Out
It's impossible to have any kind of a dating life if you don't make time to meet women. Set aside at least one night out of the week for you to get out on the town. That shouldn't be too much for even the busiest of men. Cut back on watching TV and playing video games if you have to. You have to invest some time and effort into your social life just like you would for anything else.
2. A Hobby That Will Allow You To Meet Women
Next up is to find something that you can do in your spare time that allows you to meet more women and people in general. This could be dancing lessons, cooking classes, joining a bowling league, yoga, or something else all together. If you can find something where women outnumber men a great deal then you will be in a great situation.
3. Improve Your Look
Is there something about your appearance you would like to improve on? Would you just like to change things up? Try getting yourself a new haircut, some new clothes, and a daily workout plan. Just a few tweaks here and there will make you feel good about yourself. Let's not forget that it will also get the attention of others.
4. Meet Women Throughout The Day
You're going to have to leave the house at some point. Why don't you start some conversations with women while you are out buying groceries, going for a walk, or at the mall? Your conversations don't have to be long. Just say a few words to see where things can go from there.
5. Make It Your Goal To Say "Hi"
Don't waste all your time trying to think of the prefect words to say. There are no perfect words and never have been. Just say "Hi" when you see a woman you would like to meet. It's a normal thing to do and you won't have to look like a creep. If she sends out a friendly vibe you can then ask her questions about herself to get her talking.
6. Get Over Your Past
When you fall in love you are also risking yourself to get hurt. The problem is that once you get hurt you start to fear getting hurt again. You have to give yourself enough time to get over things, but also not dwell on your past forever. All fear must be conquered in order to achieve the life that you want. Recognize that there is a difference between the feelings of pain and fear of feeling pain.
7. Identify The Type Of Woman You Want
Problem is that a lot of guys get themselves into dating any woman that will have them. Attractive men are picky and set very high standards for the women that they bring into their life. Just dating any woman is a sign of desperation.
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