Saturday, November 21, 2009

Know when to WALK AWAY…


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I know exactly how much courage it takes to finally call off the relationship. The dilemma lies in just crossing that fine line of ‘enough’ to ‘too much’. Believe me; no one can help you take a decision on this. You have to be your own rescuer.

Make a call now…

Physical abuse: Just walk away immediately when this starts. If you've taken this once, it’ll turn to be a routine. And it’s not a norm that only men hit, if a woman hits, she’s is to be blamed equally. Walk away before the nuisance begins.

Cheating on you : If you’re the ‘forgive them’ types, chances are they might take you for granted and cheat again. But if you take them back, just because you can’t overcome your own weakness, you’ll end up ruining yourself. You won’t ever be able to take that off your mind.

The fine line…

Disregard for your family : Your family is an extension of you and so is theirs. If they can’t respect your family, they will never ever respect you. And tell me, why you should take nonsense about people who have made you what you are today. But in such a case, you may give them a second chance and sort out issues.

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Verbal insults : It’s human nature to blurt out hurtful things! They might really not mean it when they say things about you. For once, it’s pardonable. But if it’s on the platter for the main course menu everyday, please take a stand and walk out.

Work it out…

Carelessness : C’mon! It’s a petty issue to fight over, unless you’re like really into getting him/her off you. It’s normal to be careless about little things in life. Relax and sit down. Try solving out this. Put clearly what and how you expect things.

Oops! I forgot! : This is the most common of all and surely can be overlooked. I myself have these things of forgetting the small counts because of a very hectic schedule. Maybe, you can do half of it for them to ease the burden. You, as a partner, should understand that the other person is a human and work it out.

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