Some men, who are virgins, are so embarrassed that they try to hide it from a woman. After speaking to numerous females, I found out that they wouldn't have a care in the world if their man actually was. In fact, it turns them on and even admires that quality of being able to hold it off until they meet Miss Right.
If you have finally decided that you no longer want to just have a one night stand with your woman, then it's a must that you add variety and romance into the bedroom.
Women need flirtation
Unlike men, they don't just jump for joy once you drop your trousers. They need to slowly get into the mood.
Some men find it so hard to add romance into their relationship, yet it can be quite simple. We men just make it hard. Romance is actually so important in the relationship. Without it, the woman will never truly be in the mood and feel sexy. Romance enables the women to make the move on men into the bedroom.
Examples of being romantic could be as easily as going to your local florist and grabbing a dozen of dark red roses and a box of chocolates. Or if you're truly a romantic at heart, try buying rose petals and sprinkling them all over the floor leading from the door to the bedroom and bathroom. It acts like a path to where you want to lead her to go to.
A family man
Although most men expect women to be the cook, why not learn to cook up some simple dishes for the both of you. (Notice why so many chefs are actually males, we do have this talent in us).
Create a three course meal and even add a printed menu of what's being served for the night. Don't go over board or else you two will ended up falling a sleep after a massive meal and just want to head for bed. However, make sure dessert is on the menu, it's a must.
First and foremost, what you need is a step by step plan. This includes making sure you clean up your home so the whole environment is welcoming to shopping and cooking as mentioned earlier.
Having a plan leaves nothing to be accidentally missed and also relieves any final moment stress, thinking there is something that you might have left out.
Just ask her
Unlike men, women know how to communicate their needs very subtly. Men on the other hand, don't know how. If you want something from a woman, just ask. Even ask her what she would like that turns her on.
Women enjoy making both romantic and playful love. Most men just want to get right into it but it doesn't work that way.
At times it can, but the enjoyment from the woman's side would die out very quickly so try to break off this habit. This will ensure that the both of you are enjoying it and it's not just a one sided affair.
Know her needs
To finalize, it all comes to being considerate of the woman's needs. The true gentleman will ask. That is the way you can learn from each other as everybody is different. What one woman enjoys may not be another's cup of tea. If you don't ask, you won't know.
Lastly, compliment. This is where women are very similar to men. They want compliments to know that they also did a great job satisfying your needs as well because you had taken the time to satisfy her needs.
Following the above will ensure that making love is both romantic and long lasting.
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