Monday, July 13, 2009

Date on the beach...


The beach can be a great place to meet women over the summer months. There are lots of single women there, the location is very relaxed, the women are very attractive, and the beach lends itself to being social.

The truth is that there aren't that many tricks to this. It really boils down to you starting a conversation with the woman of your choice and going from there. With that said, I am going to give you some tips to help you meet women at the beach.

Your Confidence Is Important

No matter where you meet women your level of confidence is important, but at the beach it is maybe more important then anywhere else. Why? Because at the beach women will be wearing very little clothing and so will you. Those two things could make you extremely nervous and insecure.

You don't want to be too self conscious about your body. Get yourself a tan before you go to the beach. Try a good sunless tanning solution to get rid of that whiteness before you go to the beach. You may also want to work out a little bit so that your not too soft. You don't need to be the biggest guy, but a little muscle will help.

You should also get yourself a nice bathing suit. At the very least get yourself something that is in style for this summer. Some nice looking sunglasses should also help improve your look.

Having a nice t-shirt or other summer shirt will also help. I recommend that you approach women with your shirt on if you do have a nice body. It shows the woman that your not trying to impress her.

What To Bring

You should bring just about anything you can think of that would get a woman to interact and socialize with you.

- A Frisbee
- A volleyball
- Beach ball
- A football
- Surfboard (If you know how to surf)
- Sunscreen lotion or oil
- A blanket
- A deck of cards
- Ice and drinks
- Snack and food

How To Meet Her

Go where the biggest crowds are. That is the easiest way to meet women at the beach. Try any of the following:

- Borrow some of her lotion
- Ask her if she would like to throw the Frisbee
- Invite her for a drink
- Just say "Hi" and make small conversation
- Move around. As women walk around you can say "Hi" to them
- Have a question to ask her and her friends.
- Get her opinion on something

Very standard and straightforward stuff. Not all women will be receptive to your approach, but some will be.

In the end...

As you can see meeting women at the beach is a great idea. Just make sure you aren't like most men who stair at women. If that's all your going to do then there is no point in even going to the beach.

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