Your calves tense. Your hips grind. Your back arches. The outer third of your vagina begins to contract every 0.8 seconds, your womb balloons to nearly double its size. Then, finally, there’s a release of tension. These are the signs you’ve experience an orgasm.But what if you’ve never felt one, two or any of the above? Or, you’ve felt some of them but not in that order? Does that mean you’ve never really come? Don’t panic! An orgasm, can in fact, be none of the above. Whether you’re a screamer or a gentle moaner, understanding your O is guaranteed to make it better.
While science says that at its most basic, an orgasm is an involuntary muscle reflex, new research from the UK reveals the definition varies from women to women. While a third of women studied reported they’d had an orgasm, monitors recorded they had experience no muscle reaction at all. They’re minds said they’d come, but they’re bodies denied it, proving orgasm transcends science to be a far more complex blend of body and mind.
Relax, it’s all good…
In reality, more than a third of women don’t climax during penetration alone, and 80 per cent of those who do, don’t come every time. Many women rely on clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm, while some women report ‘no-touch’ orgasms (where they climax without stimulation) and others say they have multiple orgasms. Fact: it’s easier for women to achieve multiple orgasms than men. While they’re possible for a man, his first orgasm must occur without ejaculation and without losing his erection. Women, however, can learn that ability (usually masturbating) to ‘come again’ within a minute or two of their full orgasm.
So, what’s the deal? Is your orgasm as orgasmic as your friends? Answer: there’s no right, better or ‘real’ way to achieve an orgasm,”. Do it the way that pleasures you best”.
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