Does she like me?
Does she just want to be friends?
Back and forth it would go through their mind....
Does that sound at all familiar to you?
Most men have went though a number of different experiences where that has been the case. Here are some things that I would reveal to you, being a girl myself, andtake you a step ahead to just the prospects of having her or not.
Be the explorer...
Whether women realize it or not, they don't always send clear signals. Many of the signals that indicate interest are just a way to lead you on.
But butterflies still aren't flying?
She wants to see how much she can learn about you. She wants to see if you can make her feel tingly inside. This does give you more opportunity to prove yourself, but unfortunately it will rarely work in your favor, because you will think your already doing the right things.
To prove she's feminine enough
Women love attention. They crave for it. Though they wouldn't admit it brazenly. But sometimes they will flirt with you just to get attention. Married women do this and you can see lots of women doing it at your favorite club. It's a great way for her to validate herself as a woman. It reassures her of her feminity. She only knows that she is beautiful based on the fact that men hit on her, compliment her, and so on.
There is a difference between flirting for attention and flirting with intent. Women will use both of these on you.
You are sending her mixed signals
Often when a woman sends mixed signals its because you are sending her mixed signals.
What???
Yes! You heard me correctly. She is just as confused as you are.
A lot of guys send out behavior signals to a woman that communicates friendship. I know your intentions may be more then that, but she doesn't always know what your intentions are. So be careful about how you treat her. Are you treating her like a friend? Or... A lover? You better figure it out.
If she needs a pet, she would go for a dog, not YOU!!!
How many times have things been going well only for things to suddenly change in your relationship? This happens all the time.
Did you keep telling her how amazing you think she is?
Did you start buying her gifts all the time?
I know what your thinking!
She said she wanted to be treated like a princess and to feel special.
What made you think that she doesn't already feel that way with you?
It's okay to value a woman, but don't overvalue her. Let her call you sometimes, let her tell you how amazing you are sometimes, and let her buy you a gifts sometimes.
As I've always belived, it's a relationship of equals. Kudoos to you that you take care of her, love her, maker her feel special, make her feel wanted... but don't pamper her so much that she starts feeling strangulated and suffocated in your presence.
Let her know your worth. After all, let her also feel that it was a MAN who wooed her and make her go beserk about him!
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