Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Why WOMEN cheat in marriage?


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She wants to have good sex. She wants emotional security. She wants love. She wants to reassure herself of her beauty. No these weren’t the reasons why she married you, but why she’s cheating on you.

They say, it’s very difficult to understand a woman. Actually, they’d put it just right except that the woman should be smart enough to keep the man engaged and guessing.

She cheated you and you're in tears. Perhaps she was looking for emotional security that you couldn't provide, or that helping hand to overcome issues, or that oh-so-hot guy she had rocking sex with, or maybe, you just failed to match her unsurpassable IQ.

Reasons could be numerous, but find out when she's making the move.

The signs:

Emotional changes: She gets distant and cold; gets angry at every little thing. Or starts pleasing you the way she has never done before. Bringing you flowers, calling you baby etc etc etc.

Physical changes: She’s started eyeing herself in the mirror more than often now. Goes gymming regularly, has lost weight, has started putting on sexier attires, has changed her hairstyle and goes for weekly parlor sessions.

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Sexual changes: She sleeps early at night or way late after you’re already snoring. You hardly have any sex together. Or you have way more sex than before. She tries to overcome her guilt by serving you more.

Lifestyle changes: She is working overtime, but its nowhere showing in her pay cheques. She spends more time out of the house. She’s over the phone most of the time. She says she’s talking to her friend while her phone bills show nothing of the sort. Her messages tone beeps more oft. She’s put a security lock in her phone.


She has cheated on you, now what?

In case, she’s acted dirty and been the cause of remorse to you, be prepared to take a call. You have to be strong and act brave. Get down to detailing what, why and how it happened. Though it may be painful, it will save you the disgrace of ruining your life. Make sure you caught no STI’s in the course.

Hold on! Mark my words, though these may be the signs for her infidelity, don’t jump to conclusions. Have full proof before you hit the iron rod on her. Because just in case you are wrong, believe me, you will have a real hard time


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