Getting an ex back is hard if you were the one being dumped. But imagine how you would feel if you were the one who did the dumping?
You have dumped your ex boy friend based on certain reasons. Now that you are apart, you just want to get back to him, the reason can be anything. But how do you get him back?
It is very important for you to take the responsibility of whatever happened and he needs to know that you have realized that it is your fault. Send him a long letter of apology, if you think it would be hard for you to face him and talk to him directly.
One you have told him that you want to get back to him, just let it be. Give him space to think about things. Do not nag him constantly with phone calls and texts.
Do not keep on apologizing further. Once you have accepted it there should not be any need to keep on apologizing every single time. Moreover, talk about positive memories and all the good thoughts and times that you shared.
Pamper him but as “just friends”. Take him out for a game or may be a meal, but do not even mention the reason or the intention even once.
Once you are done with all the effort to get back with him, you need to remember that you would have to start from scratch again on the relationship. Rebuilding the trust is a key component in this period.
Source: Kanika Sharma
