As it is well known that appetizers before the main course increase the tang of the food. Sex is some what similar to having food. One should always have foreplay prior to intercourse as it acts as an appetizer.
It is the one thing women can't get enough of -- OK, there are a few other things as well, but foreplay is an important one. In general terms, women are emotional creatures, and that's why they like, enjoy and often need foreplay.
Opposed to their male counterparts, women aren't raring to get down to it. This is because their bodies need trickery for the lust and lubrication required for intercourse and their emotions dictate that they feel a sense of closeness and mutual respect with their partner.
Your female partner would feel uneasy if you’ll simply jump her bones, she'll feel like a tool or a machine designed to get you off. Now, each woman is different, and some might like to bump ugliest without any foreplay, but the odds are that your girl will need to grease the wheels first.
Below are top five ways to start the game…..
Talk naughty
Through foreplay, the power of suggestion can be as great as the sex itself for many women. If you can describe how you want to touch her, where, and with which of your body parts, she'll visualize it easily and eagerly. And if you know how to have sex with her brain (it is a major sexual organ), you bet she'll be begging you to have sex with the rest of her in due time.
In public… not a bad idea
Foreplay doesn't need to be constrained to the bedroom or inside four walls. If you and your partner don't start crying at the thought of public displays of affection (PDA), try doing some fun things out in the open. This would surely turn your partner on for the next part of the evening.
Strip down
Strip shows aren't just for men any longer; women have gotten shrewd to the idea of having men execute a peel dance for them. If you remove your clothes slowly (especially if you have a great body), remove your socks before you do anything; they're awkward and nothing turns a woman off faster than seeing a naked man with his socks on. Now that you're set to go, start by removing your shirt.
Give her oral pleasure
Every woman is diverse and, therefore, every woman likes to be touched differently. However, the same techniques that you hopefully used in high school are still effective in the majority of women.
When she spreads her legs a bit, that's a clear indication that she wants you to touch her a little deeper. Read your girlfriend's body language for a sign of what you should do.
Watch some sex
Porn can be a great way to get you and your girl in the mood, provided that your girlfriend is the type who enjoys adult entertainment. Put on something that both of you can enjoy (preferably other couples having sex and something tailored to women), and lay naked with each other while you watch it. Remember that an "accidental" caress here and there is perfectly acceptable, even preferable.
Every now and then, stop watching the movie and kiss her or play with her body. Make sure to pay more attention to her than you do to the movie. As well, if you see something kinky that you'd like to try, make a comment about it and gauge her response, which will give you an indication of whether or not she's game. The idea here is to get her imagination going.
Source: Megha Chaturvedi
