Thursday, January 21, 2010

Why do men marry?


marriage_310_01Getting married is one of the most important decisions that anyone can ever make in his life. The final decision of marrying someone needs to be taken after a complete analysis of one’s compatibility with one’s prospective partner.

The reasons that a man looks at while desiring to marry her are innumerous. But some of the most common ones are…


The wish to continue the motherly love received in childhood:
He wants a woman who can fulfill his physical and emotional needs, someone who can show him love. This is why men look for the same qualities in their wives as to what their mother possesses.

Desire to have a lifetime companion:
To know that he is never going to be alone for the rest of his life, gives him a certain sense of security about himself.

The love the man has for the woman:
What a man desires is what he wants to own. It’s a general human tendency. Thus, if he loves someone, he would really want to own her.

The woman having become pregnant by him:
Sometimes men might marry out of compulsion if he has got someone pregnant. Also, it might just be that he wants to see a woman carrying his child. It makes him feel more responsible.

To have a woman who has a similar career for easier adaptability:
To have a wife who works in the same profession as his is something which is very comfortable for him, in order to adapt each other better. They would be able to understand the work pattern and the workload of each other. However, few others are very particular that the woman is having a different profession, so that their interests do not clash. This choice depends on the outlook of the individual.

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