When your lover’s ex is back…

You are having a good time with your partner. It has been quite a decent enough time since you guys have been with each other. Enough to build that faith and trust…

Until one day your lover tells you that his/her ex is back in their life. You just do not know what to do and start looking at things from a different point of view all together.

Even though you trust your partner a lot there is some uneasiness is that enters your space.

Here are few signs that would make you realize how you have started looking at things from a different point of view in the same situations.

You have been hanging out every weekend with your partner, because weekdays its never possible for you guys to meet up. You guys will still meet on weekends but you would always be suspecting where he is on weekdays.

He would talk to you as much as he always did over the phone, but now you would be more worried about whom he is talking to when he’s not talking to you.

She would say she is going out with her girl friends for a night out and you would tell one of your guy friends whom she has never met to be at the same place.

You are work and so is she, so even if one of you gets late getting off from work, and not pick up the phone as you must be busy. The other would start suspecting and start imagining weird situations and reaching onto conclusions. May be even end up thinking that you are probably out with your ex and you do not want your partner to know.

So the moment an ex of your lover comes back in his/her life, you start suspecting your lover for each and every actions of theirs. It is a general human tendency, you really can’t help it though, but still you need to control your thoughts and not them flow in the wrong directions.
Source: Kanika Sharma