Love is a game and relationship a gamble.You need to play safe sometimes to hold on to it and take some risks to make it work at times. But hanging on, by simple thread is what that can make it work. Playing along the line can at times make it strong. Here are a few risks that worth taking…
Cut Back Your Calls to Him
Women are prone to a lot of chit chatting. In fact, they love discussing each and everything as far as talking to their girls is concerned. But you can’t do the same with the guys. It tends to push them away. They start getting a feeling that you are trying to over power their personal space and trying to invade it. Let it go, else he would jus start getting a feeling that you are being needy. Staying a bit aloof, would make him more curious to know what’s happening. Thus, increasing his interest in you even more.
Disagree with His Opinions
It is not necessary for you to agree to whatever he says, always! If you have a different opinion, share it with. Do not blast yourself off and be disrespectful or insult him. Put your point forth in a decent way and try to make him understand that you disagree and why. Men do like women who are contemplative and are able to think rationally. Even though, if you contradict him, it’ll still turn him on!
Do Your Own Thing... and Don't Invite Him
You love each other, so you assume you should spend as much time as possible. But if you stay together for so long, you would end having nothing much to talk about and then each other’s company would only turn out to be boring. Guys love it when they know their girl has a life of her own is not depending on him always as far as socializing Is concerned. So you should definitely have those “just friends” parties where he’s not allowed.
Confront Him with Relationship Issues
You need to speak up if you have certain issues regarding your guy. Keeping quiet does not help. You need to speak it out and let him know what is wrong. The trick is to bring up issues fairly and honestly. Guys need clarity, and they want to make their girlfriends happy, but they just aren't always sure how to go about doing that, so if you let him know exactly what he's not doing and how he can fix it, he's very likely to jump at the chance.
Show Your Love
Contemporary love logic has it that no matter how thrilled by a guy you are, it's better to play down your emotions and hide that buzz because if things don't work out, you won't feel so foolish. But hiding that side of you can backfire, because guys, like women, actually feel pumped up when their partner fawns over them a bit. Plus, if you hide how you feel, he is going to think you're indifferent and may look for someone who is clearly into him. How you reveal your lovestruck, mushy side is important. He's dying to hear words that make him feel special, but go a little too far, and it'll make him panic.
Source: Kanika Sharma
