Monday, January 11, 2010

Flirting-an art or a science?


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Flirting is not something that every guy can do. Some are born with the perfect knack for it, some just learn how to be one and for some, it is just not meant for them. Not every guy who approaches a single woman sitting in a club ends up taking her home.

So what is flirting all about?

Some believe that flirting is kind of an art and that one is either born with it, or is able to learn how it is done. Well, it is about none!

Being a flirt involves a smart personality, a good command over language, hell lot of confidence, so that even when some is shattered, it doesn’t really matter. You definitely need to have an updated glossary of terms for woman. I mean hello…get rid of those cheesy lines that have been going on since ages. You go to lady sitting at the bar, pick up a cube of ice, break it and say, “Now that I have broken the ice, what’s your name?” The next thing would be the bouncer throwing you out of the club.

Hmmmm, if we talk about the science part of it, the only science that would go into it would be understanding the other sex well and being aware about how well the grey matter inside your brain works and what is your physical strength for taking the pain when you are hit because of your nasty behavior and cheesy lines.

Though flirting definitely involves a lot of calculations, as you have to know your every move before you to make it. Knowing what to do or say at the right moment is a very important trait for a flirt.

Thus, flirting is definitely an art that requires a certain sense of scientific knowledge as well. One really can’t classify it as something only artistic or scientific. In order to be a successful flirt one needs to have a fine blend of both.

To be or not be…that is the question!!

Source: kanika Sharma

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