Frequent mood swings, more quarrels than ever, and sudden loss of interest in family affairs? Lady, if this is the current scenario of your marital life, then you’re probably about to witness your biggest nightmare !!
Yes, your man might have turned unfaithful in marriage and turned to adultery. Check for the following signs to know if your marriage is on the rocks…
Changes in work schedule
The most obvious of all signs. He’s often busy with overtime shifts and important meetings. Your man might be spending too much time with ‘the other woman’ on the pretext of office work.
Out of town trips
Attending conferences out of town were nothing new, but their frequency seems to have increased all of a sudden. This must ring an alarm in your mind, dear lady.
Active weekends
Your man was the kinds who’d spend a lazy afternoon at home on a Sunday. But, he seems to have developed ‘sudden interest’ in outdoor activities (pun intended!). He finds out ways to be out of the house even on weekends on the pretext of swimming, golf, fishing or just about any sport that allows him to move out of the house.
Variation in money-spending fashion
You suddenly found an unknown card from his wallet. This might be another account he’d be operating to spend on his recently acquired leisure activities. You also seemed to have noticed a sudden outflow of cash from your joint account. Lady, you guess where the money is flowing?
Losing interest in family activities
Your man refuses to join you at the family get together on more than one occasion. He especially avoids the one that requires your family to move out of town. He might be seeing this trip as an opportunity to spend more time with his new found mate. C’mon who wouldn’t make the most out of such a situation?
Moreover, notice the small but relevant changes in his behavioral pattern. One could be that he has suddenly started taking care of the way he looks and he makes a deliberate attempt to dress up better. Another could be that he has stopped acknowledging your position in his life. Earlier he used to emphasize your importance in his life; but now he looks for reasons to quarrel with you. He gets angry at you at trivial issues and his mood swings have become more frequent than ever.
Gear up lady and better get your antennas working !!
Source: Ekta Oberoi
