While having sex one should not only think of self pleasure. Making love is also about making your partner feel happy. This should be one thing you both could think and smile about rather than raise eyebrows.
Below are few things one must avoid during sex:
Ouch you are hurting me…
Whilst many people like an hard line partner, biting any part of their body parts before they are aroused may lead to pain and discomfort (and might even lessen the chances of any further action ) or simply scare them off. So make sure your partner is fully excited before you bite their ear, shoulders, neck or any other part of their body.
Please be fast
Remember women take a lot of time to feel sexually into the moment. Most women love being kissed, touched, caressed, and take more than two minutes to reach the big O. So, take time to focus on her. If you aren’t satisfying her, she could get frustrated (or bored) and call it a night.
NO kiss please
Trust me, many people do not kiss their partner before making love. I mean can you imagine what a pain it could be? The reason people give is maybe because the positioning doesn't permit for it or they are too excited to climax and feel that it might break the rhythm. However, it is exceedingly optional that you make an effort to kiss your partner during the act – it will only add to the experience.
Shhhh… I wanna have it silently
Why? If you are happy, your partner would love to hear you moans and breaths. If you like to hear it, pay them the same respect and speak up when you're enjoying yourself. Something as simple as a little moan, or even saying something like, "that feels so good," will encourage them and educate them further on your moan zones.
Over sexual
Well, I think sex is not only about having intercourse, but also about loving the whole body of your partner. Genitals are grand, no disbelief, but you should definitely pay attention to other parts of your lover's body and focus for some time on their entire body – knees, wrists, back and stomach are highly erogenous zones for men as well as women. Gently caressing these areas will help excite your partner further; in turn, increase the chances of them pleasuring you back.
Source: Megha Chaturvedi
