Saturday, January 9, 2010

Is your partner not interested in sex?


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You are quite the cuddly kinds. The emotions are something that is more important to you than the physical interaction in a relationship. But you partner believes in expressing his love for you through his actions.

So how do you solve this??

More often than not in a relationship, when it comes to the understanding part as far as SEX is concerned, it happens because of a mutual understanding. But what do you do when your partner does not want it?

It is not necessary that every time in a relationship things start and end at bed. Your partner might not always want to make love to you when you want to and you must not push it beyond a limit as well.

If your partner is someone who likes subtle things like just cuddling up in the bed, with your clothes on, just giving you small little pecks instead of a hot and steamy smooch, and just may be giving you a back side hug while you work and the next thing wanting to just hug you and stay there, rather than just taking your clothes off and moving to the bed.

Not generalizing the phenomenon as it’s the girls who like the cuddling part and boys the fun part. Now days it’s the girls who are more bold than the guys. They are the ones who want to initiate a hot and steamy session and the guys just want to play safe and lay low.

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Here’s how you can make it subtle, get along as someone who loves to cuddle but also have your share of fun at the same time. Simple things like may be just solving a crossword together as both of you lie in the bed or just sitting on the chair on your partner’s lap can make things much more interesting subtle and too much fun to be.

One should not always look for the sexy, steamy sessions. There are other ways to tell that you care for your partner and understanding what the moment demands or needs, or may be what your partner wants and succumbing to it, can make it more exciting.

And the good part is that the next time, it is your turn….

Source: Kanika Sharma

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