I think it’s time to get alive. It seems you might have been jumping into an unhappy relationship or failed marriage.Love at first sight is a myth, and is blamed for several unhappy marriage and failed relationships. Its 'mindless' to think that occasionally the first stumble upon is satisfactory to fall in love with someone. A connection should not be started until you actually know someone.
People repeatedly drawn to on an almost instinctual origin. Nevertheless many good-looking people may not have those inside character that make for rewarding marriage. This is why it's so important to know somebody.
Source: Megha Chaturvedi