Monday, January 11, 2010

Post Break-up Party!


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Just had a break up? Some one you really loved asked you to get the hell out of his life. It came as a sudden blow and you really were not expecting it. It has been more than 24 hours that you haven’t been able to accept the fact and have been crying your a** off. You have isolated yourself in your house and got cut off from every person around you. You think all the happiness has been sucked out of your life and now you are nothing but a dejected soul who thinks is not ready to hit the road again.

Leave it all behind and look at the positives. After all, if now that you guys are apart, it just means that that was a phase in your life and it is done now and you must move on. There’s no point in sulking, if some loser thinks that you guys are not meant to be together. Let it go!!!

If you think it is hard to move on so quickly, here are a few tips to take it slow…

Catch up with all your old friends, time to give all your friends a call and give them some time. It has been quite long that you have been ignoring them, just because you always wanted to go to the club with your “love”, you cancelled out all the Saturday night dinners with your friends. It's time to get together and do your old thing. Get drunk, have fun, go for drives, pyjama parties and all the other nonsense. Go insane!!!

Take out that little black book, which had the phone numbers of all the guys/girls who had a crush on you, or asked you out before you were dating or while you were dating. For all the time, you just focused all your attention on one person, just broaden your horizon and look around. There would be so many options available for you. No need to commit yourself to anything, as you just got out of it now, but just go with the flow…and you’ll know that you are not the reason for your relationship not working out.

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You changed yourself according to what would please your partner. Get rid of that old look. Be what you want to be without anyone nagging you about your physical appearance all the time. Shop, get a makeover, new hairstyle, new look, and all set to start a fresh.

Do those things that you always wanted to do but could not because you always had to attend to certain commitments. You never really had any free time to yourself as you always had to attend to “someone”. Also, now there should be no inhibitions in your mind whatsoever, for there is no one to stop you or question you or ask about your whereabouts all the time.

Don’t try to hold on to someone if they don’t want you. Hence, there’s no point feeling bad for someone who does not want you. Don’t waste your time over someone so miser, who let you go for some lame reason!

Live it up with full enthusiasm!

Source: Kanika Sharma

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