Alright so the day has come when you’re gonna be formally introduced to his/her parents for the first time. You had been dreaming about this meeting all this while and the moment has finally arrived.
Nervous? Have faith in your relationship and march forward. Just keep the following in mind when you’re meeting your in-laws-to-be for the first time…
Dress appropriately for the occasion
Dress-up a bit formally but choose clothes that are comfortable to wear. Try going a little traditional for a good first impression. You know a particular outfit in your wardrobe has people take notice of you, right? Wear the attire that fetched you maximum compliments.
Go natural with the make-up
Ladies, too much of make-up is a big no-no. I know you have to enhance your features but please do that subtly. As a thumb-rule, enhance either your eyes or your lips and keep the look understated. Keep the overall look natural.
Gentlemen, please shave and moisturize your skin before the first meeting. Even if the “just-outta-bed” look suits you really well, go for the clean and kempt look at least for this occasion. Don’t hesitate in applying that lip balm too.
Do your homework well
You’ve been dating your prospective partner from a long time now and you must know the likes and dislikes of their parents. Stay away from getting into an argumentative topic. Instead, talk about common interests and keep the conversation light and healthy.
A tinge of compliments
We all know how a small compliment lifts up people’s mood. Admire and praise your in-laws-to-be for a thing or two; but remember, don’t go overboard.
Offer a helping hand
This goes especially for all you girls. Offer your prospective mum-in-law for a helping hand. If nothing more, serve the dishes when sitting together. Let her gauge the traditional bahu in you.
Self-check
The much-in-love couple, please behave a little sensibly. Make sure you’re not touchy and cuddly in front of your prospective in-laws. You know where to draw the line, right? Look around and observe how his/parents are behaving in general. Keep your mannerisms in sync with theirs.
Carry a small gift
This goes without saying. Carry a small gift for his/her family when you’re visiting them for the first time. Again, no showcase of wealth here please! Gift something as simple as chocolates for the right impact.
Be yourself!
The most important of all is to present the ‘real you’ in front of them. Don't create a false image of yourself. It’s a life long relationship and they must get to know the kind of person you are before a commitment.
I know you’re nervous about the entire episode, but relax and breathe easy. And finally, the most important of all,wear your SMILE!!
Source: Ekta Oberoi
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