Saturday, January 9, 2010

The FLIRT: Does he exist in you?


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The last time you saw your friend hanging around with three women at the same time and you wondered how he played the trick. Or you saw five men drooling over your very ‘ordinary-looking’ friend and you kept guessing the formulae behind her popularity.

You too can have your share of fun, but flirting is more than just a trick. It’s a trait, a part of your personality. Here’s your guide to check if you have it in you…


Active grey cells

The prey you spot could be a journalist, an engineer, a technician, a creative artist or from just about any other industry. If you want to master the art of flirting, you’ve gotta make sure that you’re well versed with all the spheres. I’m sure you wouldn’t want to make a fool of your bad general knowledge in front of your probable mate.

Chivalry is a must

Nobody would fall victim to your charm unless you’d be chivalrous. How you deal with the person in terms of talking to them, behaving with them and others around plays a very important role in creating an impact on your probable mate. Leave a good impression on them with good manners and etiquettes.

Don’t miss the body language

A good flirt is always good at reading the body language of his prey. You also have to be quick at responding to their gestures. Gauge their moves and sense the signals being sent to you. Be calculative; contemplate and play accordingly.

Don’t push too hard

Alright now you know how this person is reacting to your gestures. Her body language too is sending out signals that she’s not in a mood to hook up with you. Give it one more shot, but no more than that! Go easy and just let it be. C’mon, flirts are super smart; they don’t need to push it extra hard to get their way up. Don’t push too much, you’ll not only suffocate them, but actually piss them off!

‘Spot’ the opportunity

A flirt is not the one who waits for opportunity to knock at the door. Instead, he’s the one who’ll ‘spot’ the target wherever it is. You gotta have a keen eye to locate your prey and go bang on!

So, are you ready to spill your magical charm on him/her?
Source: Ekta Oberoi
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