Weddings are supposed to be one of the best days in someone's life. It comes with so many desires and dreams, from both the counterparts. The hard part though is living upto someone's expectations and making a mark on them. It puts both the groom and the bride under immense pressure.
Take it easy guys! She will be as skeptical about your "first night" as you. Don't scare her by puting forth your scary instincts. Speed down from 140 kmph to 40 kmph. You barely know her, right? How in your true sense of mind did you even think of plunging on her and taking charge.
Savor the moment. Both of you might just be too tired of the ceremony jazz the whole day. Try and make it a sensuous and intimate moment rather than trying to have excellent sex at this hour.
You guys would be together for long and everything can wait. Take it slow. Go with the flow. Enjoy whatever happens, don't expect it to be a rockin' night. After all holding hands, looking into each other's eyes and kissing can be as romantic. Spend time together, talking, loving her, knowing her.
Go with casual cajoling and fondling. Work your way up to it. Give her time to know you. Feel confident about yourself. You give love for sex. But always remember, for a woman, she’ll only give sex to get love. She’s sensitive, not just physically, but emotionally too. Be understanding.
As a woman, girls you must understand a man’s need for persistent sex. I nowhere intend to say that have sex on the first night. But at least be a little empathetic. He will never force sex on you if he loves you. He wants you to be his, not just for a night, but forever….
Source: Pragti Gupta
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