So, lost the charm of SEX ?

Disinterest in SEX is the most common problem in the females nowadays. Reasons could be many like long working hours, tiredness, depression etc. There's no one cause but it is usually possible to work out the underlying factors and make some changes to help you start enjoying your love life once again.

One obvious query for a woman who's gone off sex to ask herself is: was your sex life ever very good?

Occasionally when women first get occupied in a relationship they are so excited to be in love, settling down and perhaps having children, which they don't stop to question the quality of the love-making.

However after a few years have gone by, they find they have no great craving to have sex, and it's chiefly because they haven't been getting that much out of the incident.

It could be that you and your partner never actually discovered what would really turn you on and bring you satisfaction.

There is still a lot of misunderstanding about women's sexuality. For example, more women reach climax through oral or manual simulation than through intercourse. My free leaflets or e-mail fact sheets how to Have Great Sex and Women and Orgasm will help if this is part of problem.

Or it could be that you used to share a great sex life but your partner started rather taking it all for granted, stopped bothering to get you really aroused. This can happen once you stop dating and set up home together, for example.

Or your partner may have started taking you for granted in other ways. Our sex drive doesn't operate in isolation. Loss of sex drive is very often a symptom of more general problems. Perhaps you feel your partner leaves too much of the household chores and childcare to fall on your shoulders.

Hormonal swings linked with the menstrual cycle make some women hate sex, as well as feel very low and irritable for some days before their period. I can send you information on treatment available to sort out premenstrual problems.

If you think your loss of interest in making love is linked with the menopause, again tell me, so I can send you my free e-leaflet about all the help available for that stage of life. The menopause certainly doesn't have to spell the end of an active and pleasurable sex life.

I hope this has helped. If you would like any of those free leaflets or ones on How To Enjoy Great Sex or Women And Orgasm, or in fact any other help, do let me know.

Source: Megha Chutervedi

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